bee55 Posted June 29, 2010 Share Posted June 29, 2010 i have a good faithfully friend, he never tell me that he has a problem. he married for 2 years. also i make a good friend with his wife they are love me too much. one day his wife call me, to attend in her home, i quickly response her request, i notice the worry and a little tear in her eyes, she never remember to brought me an orange juice as she do before. she never start talking, i ask her where is your h? i expected he is here! she reply: he will spend 7 day2 in china. i ask her: so what the mater? tell me she grabbed my left hand and say : you know i have been married for 2 years and since that i have never physically deal with him he have a problem, he can't do any thing as i have seen. mine: you know that before wedding? she: yes but i was love him so much, at that time i never mind to sex or physically relations, all i like before is to be with him, but after one year i begin feel a pain,tell me what i do? she still grabbed my hand!! and her tear start fell down, mine: easy, take it easy, so what shall you do? she: i intended to take my Lack from other guy? i stand up and my hand is free and tell her that will be Betrayal. she: it will not be if it is done with you. no no it will be great Betrayal i say. she: please if you were me what shall you do? mine: i prefer to divorce rather than cheating. she: but i love him i can't imagine my life with out him, i can't do that. and she start crying. mine: i suggest you shall speak with him to related issue and don't be hurry. she: i prefer to kill my self mine: please every thing will be okay i promise you. i left her with kind of heartbreak Link to post Share on other sites
norajane Posted June 29, 2010 Share Posted June 29, 2010 You did the right thing. That would be a very big betrayal of your friend, and you should have no part in it! That's just really wrong. And yes, she should divorce instead of cheating, and she should talk to her husband. You did the right thing. Stay out of their marriage problems. Cheating never makes problems better. It just makes problems bigger. Link to post Share on other sites
Monique69 Posted July 14, 2010 Share Posted July 14, 2010 You did right because in the end all it`s going to bring you is heartache and the lost of a good friend .It`s not worth it at all ...and I am married myself so I know as a married woman...it1s not worth you losing a friend.. Link to post Share on other sites
WithOrWithoutYou Posted July 16, 2010 Share Posted July 16, 2010 No, do not have sex with your friend's wife. That would be very wrong and dishonorable. You implied that your friend's wife told you that your friend has some sort of medical problem, and is not capable of having sex with his wife. That does not make it ok to sleep with his wife behind his back. Link to post Share on other sites
LoveLace Posted July 16, 2010 Share Posted July 16, 2010 The problem is between them and them only, and she should be leaning on girl friends for support, instead of his friends and trying to get her needs met from them...very wrong of her to put you in that position. Link to post Share on other sites
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