My girl broke up with me, But she wants to remain friends, How Can I?

February 3, 2004

Does anyone think I'm stupid? My girl of 3 years just broke up with me but she wants to remain friends.

I just can't do it. I can't just stop loving her and Just become her friend. But some of my friends that are girls

tell me to stick by her, That hopefully it will just be a phase and when she snaps out of it, you'll be there.

But then other friends tell me to move on, That she'll never know if she truly loves you if you're still there.

Give her the space she's asking for.(she's asking for space and some time to rediscover who she is) She says she loves

me and doesn;t want to ever lose me, because she'd just die if she didn't know me, But what Am I Supposed to do?

3 years of great love and Me treating her so good, Now I just have to be her friend? Why should I hang around?

February 3, 2004

I have been in this situation several times and it doesn't work.

If you are still in love with her, being a friend and watching her date other guys, etc. won't work.

If this is just a phase she will come back to you even if you don't stay in contact. After being with you for 3 years she won't ever forget you.

Actually your total absence from her might cause her to miss you and bring her back.

February 3, 2004

Thanks Doniker. I just don't want to be the bad guy or seem like I don't want to be around her, Because I do.

She can't understand why I wouldn't want to at least see her once a week. I just tell her that it's just too much.

See her once a week as a friend who won't be playful or do all the little cute loving things she used to do?

It sucks. I don't want to be mean, but I think total absence is the best, while she figures stuff out.

February 3, 2004

Read this thread, this guy is going through the samething you are..

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