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Will this thread never die? LOL ;)

Quite simple: go up to the "Thread Tools" menu and select "Unsubscribe from this thread" and Loveshack will stop forcing you to read it.

 

Oh yeah, and then: stop reading it.

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Quite simple: go up to the "Thread Tools" menu and select "Unsubscribe from this thread" and Loveshack will stop forcing you to read it.

 

Oh yeah, and then: stop reading it.

:rolleyes: Thorgs is a friend and I was harassing him! :p:laugh:

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It is sad to know when some one didn't give any importance to the person who loved them . If you still want her back make her realize what you really are to her . Make her feel your importance. Just be strong and ignore her a little but always remain in contact. i hope this will help you my friend .

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It is sad to know when some one didn't give any importance to the person who loved them . If you still want her back make her realize what you really are to her . Make her feel your importance. Just be strong and ignore her a little but always remain in contact. i hope this will help you my friend .

Did you even read this thread?

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Well, walked out to my car after work today and looked over and there's the ex sitting in her car waiting for her daughter. My blood just boiled until I got home because after what she did to me shows that she has no remorse and I must still subconsciously be hurt by it. Blah, thank goodness it was only just a glimpse of her. I need to get out of this GD place.

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Well, let me inform you that I did not go out of my way to talk to her daughter and I did not want to hear anything about the ex in the first place. She just kept leaving class to find me to pour out everything to me on a few different occasions. Do I blame her? No, we were very close, all of us were. Yeah, I broke NC because what the mother was doing was complete bull**** to do to a child. I don't care to get back with her in any way and didn't when I stuck my neck out for her daughter.

 

Sending a letter means I'm a wuss? I don't think so. I didn't get to say what I wanted to say at the break up and I needed that closure. Men having to be macho all the time is complete BS.

 

As for the FB thing, I had them set up so I never saw what they wrote and it was never an issue.

 

Anyways, it's all behind me now. I'm done with it.

 

 

I need to chime in and must say something to prevent you from being a wuss. My ex dump me on the waste side,after 2.5 years relationship. She told me to move on. I said ok I move on. During the last 4 months, she has contacted me 3x(maybe to relief her guilt), NOT ONCE, I made contact to her. I hate when she contacts me because I didnt want to relive the past. So, I told to let me alone and if she is serious of working thing out, she would call me, and I would not call her. This was like about 1 month and half ago. Since than, she didnt call me. Thank goodness! Frankly, I have move on and dont give a shi t about her. Even if she wants to come back, I would tell her to pound sand on her azz. I dont need her nor want her back. I am very happy with my life, and now start meeting new girls to date.....

 

 

Frankly. in your situation, I think you want to use her kid as an excuse to cling on hope of getting back with her. Her daughter is not your problem, its her job to take care of her daughter. You are no longer in her daughter life since you are not longer with the ex. She had move on and screwed someone else. She does not want you. If she does, there wouldnt be this long azz thread at all to begin with. So, stop pinning over her and wasting your time for nothing. Be strong-will, strong mind, and stop being a puss y.

 

You should be doing something productive in your life like get a hobby, dating someone else, or do anything to keep you busy.....Its time to move on and chalk this up as a life learning experience.

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I need to chime in and must say something to prevent you from being a wuss. My ex dump me on the waste side,after 2.5 years relationship. She told me to move on. I said ok I move on. During the last 4 months, she has contacted me 3x(maybe to relief her guilt), NOT ONCE, I made contact to her. I hate when she contacts me because I didnt want to relive the past. So, I told to let me alone and if she is serious of working thing out, she would call me, and I would not call her. This was like about 1 month and half ago. Since than, she didnt call me. Thank goodness! Frankly, I have move on and dont give a shi t about her. Even if she wants to come back, I would tell her to pound sand on her azz. I dont need her nor want her back. I am very happy with my life, and now start meeting new girls to date.....

 

 

Frankly. in your situation, I think you want to use her kid as an excuse to cling on hope of getting back with her. Her daughter is not your problem, its her job to take care of her daughter. You are no longer in her daughter life since you are not longer with the ex. She had move on and screwed someone else. She does not want you. If she does, there wouldnt be this long azz thread at all to begin with. So, stop pinning over her and wasting your time for nothing. Be strong-will, strong mind, and stop being a puss y.

 

You should be doing something productive in your life like get a hobby, dating someone else, or do anything to keep you busy.....Its time to move on and chalk this up as a life learning experience.

 

I appreciate you chiming in but let me tell you what you have wrong. I do all that I can to avoid her daughter, trust me. I've talked to her once in the past 2-3 weeks. It's too bad too because we used to just shoot the sh*t all the time before I even met her mom, but then I was just a pawn in her mom's life to try to make her ex husband jealous (my assumption) and now her daughter and I don't talk at all, which is sad, but fine by me because every time I do, she just brings up bullsh*t that's going on. It's over.

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I appreciate you chiming in but let me tell you what you have wrong. I do all that I can to avoid her daughter, trust me. I've talked to her once in the past 2-3 weeks. It's too bad too because we used to just shoot the sh*t all the time before I even met her mom, but then I was just a pawn in her mom's life to try to make her ex husband jealous (my assumption) and now her daughter and I don't talk at all, which is sad, but fine by me because every time I do, she just brings up bullsh*t that's going on. It's over.
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OOOOOO Geeeeeeezzz, she is cold heart b!tch. She used you to make her ex jealous. what is a nice person she is....she makes me sick. So you are her rebound guy. No wonder it does not work out with you. Stayyyyyyyyyyyy away from her, she is toxic. Count your blessing. Trust me, when u find someone who is decent and dont play game, you will thank me. Dont worry, you will find a good girl who treats you right and with respects.

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OOOOOO Geeeeeeezzz, she is cold heart b!tch. She used you to make her ex jealous. what is a nice person she is....she makes me sick. So you are her rebound guy. No wonder it does not work out with you. Stayyyyyyyyyyyy away from her, she is toxic. Count your blessing. Trust me, when u find someone who is decent and dont play game, you will thank me. Dont worry, you will find a good girl who treats you right and with respects.

Actually I'm 1 of 3 rebound guys LOL.

 

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This song pretty much makes my life right now, I love it!

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That song is perfect. So is the ex really engaged??? I am only on day 5 of the breakup and I have a bad bad feeling my ex (who is involved with someone else) will be soon. Don't think I could handle that!

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That song is perfect. So is the ex really engaged??? I am only on day 5 of the breakup and I have a bad bad feeling my ex (who is involved with someone else) will be soon. Don't think I could handle that!

That's the last thing I heard...then the following week after I blew up the ex's phone with a text breaking NC to stick up for her kids the youngest daughter came to me crying (she was supposed to be in lunch and I was upstairs on the opposite end of the building). I guess some kids were bullying her (some kids as in her friends) then she randomly told me whatever I said to her mom worked because she's not going to live with this guy after their house sells.

 

I feel that's BS and was just fed to the daughter to get me off her back mom's back, which doesn't matter anyways because I'm done with the situation. More hurt than anything.

 

As for the bullying, I didn't report it for two reasons. One, this school system is a complete joke and when I have written it up in the past it just gets sent back to me and nothing is done and two, the girl was back to being friends with these kids after a few days.

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That song is perfect. So is the ex really engaged??? I am only on day 5 of the breakup and I have a bad bad feeling my ex (who is involved with someone else) will be soon. Don't think I could handle that!

BTW, PSH, I'm sorry to hear about your hurt and sadness. It does get better. Trust me!

 

Remember to eat well, workout/run, and stick to your social network. I didn't have a social network (family/friends) and it was a nightmare. If I had that, life would have been peachy and I wouldn't have ever had to come to LS and ask for help :p Thank God I at least had this place.

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So I was told that the ex's oldest is talking sh*t about me up at the high school. So fu*king annoying and pathetic. Especially since I have never been mean to that family and haven't talked to them since mid-July. Sorry, just venting.

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Ok, I've come to the conclusion that this town is seriously f*cked up. Some of the shadiest people I've ever met are from here and I'm done with it. Friday night, pulled up to a stop light and there's a girl I hooked up with at the beginning of the year. This should have been a sign as to what was to come. Saturday night I'm at my friend's bar minding my own business and talking with a good group of friends. Next thing I know, a group of 5, 3 girls and 2 guys, walks in about 1AM. I used to be friends with them all until I realized how horrible they are. One of them I even hooked up (she pretty much took advantage of me when I was wasted) with over a year ago. So when I realized how horrible they were I stopped talking to them (just about a year ago). Anyways, I go to leave at 1:45 and think my parking brake is stuck because it happens sometimes. That's when the car starts pulling hard to the shoulder at 2-3 mph. So I limp it to the closest parking spot and get out. Yep, 3 tires slashed. Call the bar and tell them and I walk back to the bar. Owner is outside saying him and his wife's car got hit and so did another guy. Cops called, came 45 minutes later. AAA came another 45 minutes after that. Got home at 5:30AM. Horrible night.

 

Cop called me yesterday and said he is hearing that it was the girl I hooked up with that slashed my tires. He asked if I said or did anything to make her do that. I told him no and that I minded my own business because they are some of the sketchiest people I have ever met (he agreed) and told him it's been about a year since I ever talked to that group of people.

 

So now my car is sitting in my lawn because the damn tow company dropped the car illegally and the local police said they would ticket it. I have no ride to get the tires replaced either. Some f*cking week.

 

PS - I'm afraid that if I press charges (along with the other 3 people) that this group of people will retaliate again...even though they start their own drama and get themselves into situations like this. I don't want to put my safety and my family's safety at risk. So now I'm between a rock and a hard place. I wouldn't put anything past these low lifes.

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Well, I guess I'll update.

 

Haven't talked to the daughter at work since I told the ex I wouldn't. Kind of BS if you ask me because why should the kid have to lose out for the mother's short comings. Anyways, haven't seen the ex at all. Keep hearing about her every now and then...I guess she really is the town whore! Eye opener really. She pops into my head every now and then which is annoying because I don't care for her anymore. I guess it's more of the fun times that were had...but still, I'd rather her not pop into my head.

 

Now...on to the next one! :D

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Dude, why don't you move? F that town.

Haha I know. I don't live in the town, just work in the town. So I guess that's at least a positive note :cool:

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I read the NC guide but I don't know what to do. FML

 

I don't know how much more clear the NC guide can be. If you don't want to follow it then why even bother asking what to do here.

 

As soon as you call her, it relieves her feelings of guilt. Then she can forget about you and move on. You calling her is like saying "I am fine so please go get a new boyfriend and never look back". Don't believe me? Call her back and then see if she contacts you again. It may be a few weeks if at all. Then when you contact her again it will be even longer or not at all.

 

These boards are filled with people who didn't follow NC when they knew they should have and were destroyed. There was one real good post I have to find. Some guy was told to go no conatct but he wouldn't listen. He kept going after the girl, even using another email address when she blocked his. Finally she told him that she was with a new guy and had pictures with him on FB. The guy was devestated and went on a rant of how she could be so mean as to tell him this.

 

Let your ex miss you. Unless you give her a long time to see what it is like without you, she will never know what she lost.

 

Since you are "wondering what to do", let me give you the best advice about NC that I ever came across and will be your answer whenever you are wondering what to do. That is, you can never have too much NC.

 

Drop her suddenly and permanently. If she wants you back she will come pounding on your door. If she doesn't you will start to heal which is the main function of NC.

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