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Daughter came to me today...searched me out actually, at the end of the day. I am at the opposite end of the school she is on. Told me her mom is with a new guy (3rd I've heard of since she broke up with me). Turns out he's the first person she had sex with when she was younger. Also turns out they are getting a house together. What! After just a month or so of talking after several years! She also got a ****ing boob job yesterday, wtf!! I ****ing hate hearing this ****, but I know her daughter is seriously hurting and has no one else to talk to. **** my life, seriously.

 

 

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Daughter came to me today...searched me out actually, at the end of the day. I am at the opposite end of the school she is on. Told me her mom is with a new guy (3rd I've heard of since she broke up with me). Turns out he's the first person she had sex with when she was younger. Also turns out they are getting a house together. What! After just a month or so of talking after several years! She also got a ****ing boob job yesterday, wtf!! I ****ing hate hearing this ****, but I know her daughter is seriously hurting and has no one else to talk to. **** my life, seriously.

 

 

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?t=244958

 

Thorgs, you need to relax! What is going to happen will happen. I know, my ex is getting married after a month and a half with someone he never even knew before July. You can't change how they act, only how you react.

 

Like I mentioned before, maybe she (the daughter) needs to talk to someone else about her mother, like a friend or a counselor. You need to detach and heal yourself or it will never get any better.

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Like I mentioned before, maybe she (the daughter) needs to talk to someone else about her mother, like a friend or a counselor. You need to detach and heal yourself or it will never get any better.

I know, but she really doesn't have any close friends she can confide in and personally, the counselors at the school are absolutely terrible. I asked her to not bring up her mom anymore because it's heart breaking hearing what she is doing, but I told her if she really needs someone to talk to that I'm there for her. Blah, horrible day.

 

I even picked up a pack of cigs and I had quit recently and it was the hardest thing ever to give up and now I'm back to square one. :(

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I know, but she really doesn't have any close friends she can confide in and personally, the counselors at the school are absolutely terrible. I asked her to not bring up her mom anymore because it's heart breaking hearing what she is doing, but I told her if she really needs someone to talk to that I'm there for her. Blah, horrible day.

 

I even picked up a pack of cigs and I had quit recently and it was the hardest thing ever to give up and now I'm back to square one. :(

 

No, you are not a square one it just feels like it. I think the day I realized that I was at peace with all the craziness around me was when I finally got it in my head that in order to ever have a life with or without them in the future, I have to think about me today and become the person I was before I ever heard his name.

 

Yeah, it hurts but it hurts less every day even with knowing that he is what he claims to be which is "happy." And he makes it a point to stress that he has a "new life there" anytime his new B!t@h is around. He is two different people around me. Mean and nasty when she can hear him and nice when she is nowhere near. He cannot come over to see our dogs that were like our kids because he claims that she doesn't trust me. And I say it is the other way around when she calls me up and asks me 500 questions about everything.

 

Too much drama for me all the way around. I stopped calling and changed my number and the fool has the audacity to ask for the new one "just in case it was an emergency." Other than her throwing his butt out on the street I don't know of any emergency that he would need to call me about. :laugh:

 

I just had to realize that it is what it is and what will happen is going to happen no matter how I react. So for your own sanity, just let it be, say whatever and put it out of your mind.

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And don't start smoking again! Ugh, I went through that with the ex when he quit and did really well -- for a whole 8 months. All I ever saw was sunflower seeds :p everywhere! Then he picked it back up and has not stopped since even for his health (that is a whole other story). His new woman smokes too so I am thinking they are puffing away like two fools! :laugh:

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Thanks Pixie, you always brighten my day. I can only imagine the pain you are feeling! I wrote this HUGE letter to the ex, not to get her back, but to get her head out of her ass. if not for her, for her kids. want me to PM it to you?

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oh yeah, i ran into my old old ex's little sister and boyfriend today while driving around. i just got a chuckle out of it haha

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Thanks Pixie, you always brighten my day. I can only imagine the pain you are feeling! I wrote this HUGE letter to the ex, not to get her back, but to get her head out of her ass. if not for her, for her kids. want me to PM it to you?

 

 

Do I even have PM on here? LOL!

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I have Yahoo, MSN, Google but I do not think I can get PM's on here. :confused:

Oh do you have it turned off? after a month of being a member it turns on

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Mine still says "Member" not "Established Member" for some reason.

hmm, maybe it's post count then. 50 i think? 5 more to go! haha

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I will give you my Yahoo or whatever if you want. I am not skeered of ya! :p

I only have email though haha. Facebook?

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I actually deleted my Facebook account so I would not have his new woman drama to deal with.

oh ok, look in my "location" in a second and i'll put my email in it.

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Holy cow!!!!!

 

Daughter came to me and was boarderline tears...I knew whatever she had to tell me would destroy me. I let her because I care for her. Her mom got engaged yesterday, the new guy and his kids already live with them, and when the mom goes to her room to have sex she lets the older daughter go to her room and have sex. So when everyone in the house is getting laid this poor young girl is stuck in her room with the guys two children. I am completely heartbroken and devastated. I have not drank for quite some time, but I am going to the bar right now because I cannot take this anymore. I am completely shocked and shattered. </3

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