carra Posted February 6, 2004 Share Posted February 6, 2004 We are eachother's firsts, and there is soo much history between us. We have been a lot of places together, have wonderful memories. I know he is frustrated, as i am too about our situation. We seem to have the "can't live w/eachother, can't live w/o eachother" complex. I think we just need help w/ communication. i am willing to make it work, but he has the attitude that if it's meant to work it will, if not, it won't. he doesn' want to work at it, he doesn' think he should have to, i guess. You guys believe a relationship takes work, right? it's just soo frustrating! i don't believe in "falling out of love", but i do believe the initial feeling fades. There has to be more to a marriage then just feeling in love. Link to post Share on other sites
Cici Posted February 6, 2004 Share Posted February 6, 2004 From what I see from Loveshack forum, people more intend to save their marriages than to give up. That's why these "other women and men" have so much pain, as their mm lovers wont leave their marriages for them... Link to post Share on other sites
Thinkalot Posted February 8, 2004 Share Posted February 8, 2004 Yep it takes work, on both sides. Both partners have to try hard. Link to post Share on other sites
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