Some questions for MEN about the way they handle problems in relationships

[carra]

We are eachother's firsts, and there is soo much history between us. We have been a lot of places together, have wonderful memories. I know he is frustrated, as i am too about our situation.

 

We seem to have the "can't live w/eachother, can't live w/o eachother" complex.

 

I think we just need help w/ communication. i am willing to make it work, but he has the attitude that if it's meant to work it will, if not, it won't. he doesn' want to work at it, he doesn' think he should have to, i guess.

 

You guys believe a relationship takes work, right?

 

it's just soo frustrating!

 

i don't believe in "falling out of love", but i do believe the initial feeling fades.

 

There has to be more to a marriage then just feeling in love.

[Cici]

From what I see from Loveshack forum, people more intend to save their marriages than to give up. That's why these "other women and men" have so much pain, as their mm lovers wont leave their marriages for them...

[Thinkalot]

Yep it takes work, on both sides. Both partners have to try hard.