Am I being baited?

[theedge]

Hi all,

I have posted before, but things changed again. I had been with someone on and off for a while and things were very complicated. She was in a relationship, not a good one mind you but in one. We became friends fast and grew some odd attraction to each other.

We tried our hands at dating and a relationship, but if it wasn't one thing it was another that complicated matters. When things were good, we had amazing chemistry, but it was very up and down.

In the end, she was going through too much and had to let go. I was her ear when things got bad for her, don't know if thats why we ended up together. She decided to call it quits to make both lives easy. I honestly don't blame her for doing it. If she stuck around I wouldn't move on and she would grow to resent me for not being what she wanted.

I got the don't contact me e-mail and respected it and tried to move on. I had her on block on MSN and not deleted. Seeing that she had not come online for weeks I figured I was blocked(I knew she was online though). One day her name appeared online, blocked but online. I did the thing that I needed to do and deleted the name. In my mind that was it.

Then, I came home one day and had a message saying, Blank wants to add you to MSN. I accepted, but her status was in away and I blocked her again as I had to go out. I didn't want to see her online unexpected. Then not seeing her online at all, the next day my phone rang and it was dead air. I looked at call display and it didn't show the number, but the text gave a message that only her cell phone gives off. I can assume its her, but not positive.

Its been over a week now, so I don't know what to think. She hasn't been online and no more phone calls. Personally I think she is baiting me to open the door again.

As it stands I am respecting the no contact rule, and leaving it alone. She is welcome to contact me, but I think I would prefer it being via e-mail as I can respond and take it from there.

I can say for a fact that I do miss her and our times together. Makes it hard to cope with so many reminders though.

[ojibwaywmn]

Wait for her to contact you first. It sounds like she does want to talk but not sure how to approach it. Yes, it is hard when the chemistry was good, etc. but she still seems to be in limbo. Let her make the next move. Good luck.