Gero Posted July 3, 2010 Share Posted July 3, 2010 So, one of the reasons that I haven't had a relationship in a long time is because I tend to be all or nothing when it comes to women. I don't get a lot of dates, but I do get some. Most of the time I find something wrong with the person that I don't like and even if I liked the girl before then, I basically just flip a switch and move on. On the other hand, when I do find someone that I like, I end up really really liking them and their either get put off by this or I force myself to take things slow so that I don't come off as obsessive or something and then they get bored of me and move on. The thing is that I really hate dating. I just want to be in a relationship really and to tell the truth, I really feel like I am wasting time by seeing someone if I don't see them as someone that I could have a long term relationship or possibly get married to down the road. So is it wrong to be really picky and then be really attracted and drawn to someone when you finally find someone that "meets your criteria"? Link to post Share on other sites
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