SimpleSam Posted July 6, 2010 Share Posted July 6, 2010 Background Info: My sister and her fiance have broken up before. Apparently while they were still at Cornell, he had cheated on her with his ex-girlfriend at the time. This had been going on for a while before my sister found out. So she broke it off. They had been talking on-and-off for a couple years after the first break-up, and got back together about four years ago. Present situation: My sister flew to see me for the July 4th holiday on a whim. She usually does not do this, but apparently she wanted to come visit. Well, the nature of the visit was clear. She is having major issues with her fiance. She told me that she had been looking up his internet history, and found that he had been visiting high-end escort service websites (he had also been looking up escorts on craig's list). Obviously, she was extremely upset and confronted him. He told her that he was doing "research" and that it was no big deal. However, he was extremely angry that she was spying on his goings on, and that he couldn't trust her (he was embarrassed he got caught is my guess). So now the wedding (next November) is on hiatus at the moment. I didn't really know what to say. I've known my sister's fiance for around five years and didn't really expect this type of behavior from him. She is really suspicious though because he is a sales rep, and some of these websites he had been visiting were escorts in areas he goes to for work. He also pays for everything in cash. I suggested to just give it a couple days, go back home, and sit down with him and say that this type of behavior hurts her emotionally and that this cannot be expected within the marriage. But right now, I don't know if she should even marry him, in my opinion. What would you do? FYI: I am not happy right now with my possibly future brother-in-law right now. Link to post Share on other sites
imagine Posted July 6, 2010 Share Posted July 6, 2010 Your sister sounds desperate or pregnant. Introduce her to this site. Link to post Share on other sites
Mimolicious Posted July 6, 2010 Share Posted July 6, 2010 Yeah, with these kind of issues I wouldn't be marrying this dude either. People see the obvious and want to think that after you get married all these problems go away. Your sister should def rethink her decision to be engaged to this "researcher". LOL! Link to post Share on other sites
Maggotface Posted July 6, 2010 Share Posted July 6, 2010 Why would a sales rep need to research anything like this? If he has cheated on her before and kept it hidden then chances are he has done it since or is still doing it. She doesnt need to marry someone like this. Link to post Share on other sites
Mimolicious Posted July 6, 2010 Share Posted July 6, 2010 Baffles me that people can be so intelligent to attend "Cornell" and actually fall for BS like this guy just gave the sister. He's already cheated. Is there anything else that your sister needs to know that this guy may be doing a little bit more than "research" with the Ashlee Dupre's of the world? Link to post Share on other sites
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