dsbs1939 Posted February 5, 2004 Share Posted February 5, 2004 Hi--I've posted here before--in the past, it was about dysfunctional guys, but, this time, perhaps, cross my fingers, pray to god, I think I may have found a nice guy, so what it the problem you ask...he is shy!! Well, so am I a little, but any tips on how to ease him a little out of his shell? We met on-line, he emailed me first, we emailed for almost two weeks before we met up, (he travels a lot for his job so we probably would have met sooner...) we met last Monday and then again on Wednesday, now we are meeting (the soonest) on Friday the 13th...ick...oh who cares. He did try to kiss me on the first date, I gave him a hug and then on the second one, we did kiss...maybe it is me that is a bit nervous...on the second date we went to a movie and he didn't hold my hand. Perhaps I am thinking about this more than I should. I think maybe I am so used to going on dates with overly touchy-feely horny men that I am not used to someone who acts gentlemenly...he even holds the door for me...I think I am getting paranoid, what can I do to help myself relax and enjoy myself? Link to post Share on other sites
Darkangelism Posted February 5, 2004 Share Posted February 5, 2004 He likes you. Don't worry if he doesnt hold your hand. You can initiate urself if you want. Link to post Share on other sites
monkey00 Posted February 5, 2004 Share Posted February 5, 2004 well, when 2 ppl enjoy each other's company or likes each other...i think it's perfectly normal to be nervous around each other. how to get him relaxed? dunno he's gonna have to figure that out himself. Link to post Share on other sites
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