Couture Posted February 5, 2004 Share Posted February 5, 2004 I met this guy a few weeks ago, it started as a one night stand then has progressed from there. We’ve been texting each other and he has been over a few times to hang out and watch videos and we haven’t slept together on every occasion. But I have found out from friends that he has a reputation of being quite a ‘ladies man’ which I dismissed giving him the benefit of the doubt. But then last night caused me to question him, when we’re together alone he’s very affectionate and we get on well but then when he’s around his friends he is inclined to show any affection towards me and it comes across as a little awkward between us. And when I saw him in a club last night we chatted for a bit and we were both quite drunk but I observed through the night that he was all over other girls he didn’t kiss anyone else that evening as he had several times. But several times that night before I had seen him look at me several times when I was with my best friend (who happens to be a guy) and I don’t know whether he thought that maybe I was flirting with other guys. But the thing that confused me was after he had done this in front of me I was chatting to a guy he knew and he asked me to dance and we headed downstairs. But my friend came up to me and told me that the whole duration of time I was talking to that guy, he would look up at us every few seconds and any girl that approached him he’d brush off. If you didn’t like someone would you be bothered that someone else was showing interest? And before the evening finished I went to the dance floor looking for my friends having not spoken to him he grabbed my hand and just as he did it another girl came up and started chatting and he didn’t let go of it until she’d gone. And then we both went back to his but didn't sleep together. Is this guy playing games to keep me keen or his not interested? Link to post Share on other sites
jmargel Posted February 5, 2004 Share Posted February 5, 2004 We aren't mind readers, the best thing you can do is communicate with him. Don't assume anything without talking to him first. Link to post Share on other sites
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