carra Posted February 6, 2004 Share Posted February 6, 2004 i was thinking of doing this w/ my hubby, who i am seperated from. is this a good idea? i just want us to enjoy eachother's company again, no pressure. what do you think, has anyone tried this before? does it work? we are attracted to eachoth, it's just that the foundation of trust and respect has crumbled, time to rebuild. Link to post Share on other sites
caretoomuch Posted February 6, 2004 Share Posted February 6, 2004 What is that u want to rebuild ? the trust and respect ? with reconciliation in mind ? how can u be someones friend that you dont trust or respect ? do you love him ? does he love you ? what caused the breakup ? more info required. Link to post Share on other sites
monkey Posted February 6, 2004 Share Posted February 6, 2004 Hi all & Care, not heard you in a while! I think it's good if friends can happen. My s/o said if i can accept her with others, then we can be friends, this she said whilst angry & no i don't think i can be her friend if she was with another. I wasn't respecting her need for space, but i was treated bad & wanted to speak. I don't believe she can treat me as she did without some kind of guilt, so i hope that we can hang together & we can be friends & see what nature does. I want reconciliation, she says she wants to see me when i'm better, but doesn't want to be with me, so i assume she's learned the art of reading the future,, i wish i could! Link to post Share on other sites
xalysabethh Posted February 6, 2004 Share Posted February 6, 2004 hi this is kinda what happend in my case we were seperated for a few months we were frends and now we are back to gether working on things. i personannly think the friends part helped us build some trust and see how much we care 4 each other xalysabeth Link to post Share on other sites
carra Posted February 6, 2004 Share Posted February 6, 2004 i'm glad it worked out for you and your hubby, thats great! i think the foundation of friendship is the most important part to any relationship. my hubby and i seperated in nov. tried reconciling three times since, but how can we love eachother if we don't necessarily like eachother right now? I think my hubby is a great guy, nice, good humor, and i think of my self the same way. i just want us to not be enemies anymore! Anyone have some suggestions on how to go about this? i don't think i can deal w/him dating anyone, but i also think that is a form of adultery if he does. We didn't cheat on eachother, it's just that we have hurt eachother, and so it's hard for us to trust our hearts to eachother right now. Link to post Share on other sites
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