family problems controlling parents

[jennifer98]

I need help from anyone who may know the law as ive been dealing with this situation for 13 years now. My mother ruined my life, by having me sent to shrinks..against my will so one day she could lie claim im suicidal, have me sent to a mental hospital and blatantly destroy my life and create a mental health history for me...have me 'labeled' and all sorts of horrid things...maybe this happens to people and maybe it doesn't, but for it to happen to you is one of the most horrifying things....she did this just to have 'control' over me and my life and destroy it---and she did...for the past 13 yrs i havent been able to recoup recover and am still in shock from what she did....more less no one has stood up against her but just used it as ammo against me and ive been thru a lot of other horrible things.....then my parents literally tricked me into getting disability--they were applying for it for me...and told me to sign papers...i had no clue for as i was young....next thing i know, they gave them medical notes and wham i had disability....this traumatized me as i didnt want to be considered 'disabled' at the age of 26...and was in shock.....of course thru 'mental health' means....then my mother who was sadistic/evil had me locked up two more times...for ridiculous reasons just because 'she could do it'....and other things i cant get into....my parents still control my life financially and i get that i can or shud get away by breaking ties but its been really hard since ive been alone confused shocked traumatized....and it has destroyed me and literally given me chronic fatigue and other things.....and ive also had some horrid experiences with other abusive people that i cant get into....legally...what they did i believe was wrong/criminal and i want to know how i can get my rights back, who i can talk to....its this huge trap/maze that i have no clue how to get out of .....ive been confused for yrs and mor eor less shocked that your own parents can do this to you.....ur in denial and dont want to believe it....then i see others who this hasnt happened to....and its as if they are free in life...free people and i feel imprisoned by this horror.....my mother still tries to do everything to have control over me, my life or finances in lots of forms...uses manipulation abuse and same with my father...they are in their 50's and me in my late 20's.... ive felt alone confused trapped for a long time...also still shocked that people are able to do this to someone and get away with it..... any advice would be helpful and in this situation....u have no rights as youre 'mentally ill' apparently or schizo something.....so u can be labeled as 'incompetent' and have everything taken away from you...and people out there are sharks...they will use your situation against you or take it as an opportunity to harass manipulate or abuse you as well as one man did to me....once he found out what happened to me he was a predator and used it to sadistically torment me.... please help.....

[jennifer98]

....anything i seem to truy to do to get my rights back, get even control of my finances, turns into a nightmare that causes me more turmoil...it seems as if it's a huge puzzle to do all of this....i used to contact advocacy centers, lawyers...but it all resulted in people not caring to do anything or caring at all....my mother is a full fledged narcissist and i was her victim..but worse, i feel my life has been destroyed...in so many ways....and i can't get out fo this trap....and no matter what, my mother has 'control' ...scarier i dont have anyone else in life except my family, and its hard to get away from them even psychologically as these types of things create severe trauma bonds...and when i try to express to people what my parents did...they just shrug it off or minimize it acting like "oh theyre your paernts and they love you...whatever they do is for your own good"...so people do not acknowledge the evils/injustices that have been done...and just blow it off as no big deal...which confuses me more...as to how people can be this uncaring or just shrug off serious situations...and if i try to express even anger towards the situation then my family or others look at me as if im the 'bad person'....it seems no matter what people can do anything cruel or bad to you and if you express dislike with it, they put 'you' down more....that's all ive experienced....and i dont know what ot do about it...and they seem to take pleasure in a person's suffering...ive been letting this go for years...but its like my life is hell and no matter what i do...this feels like a huge tie in my life that has stopped me from being able to live life or do anything successfully... please help.....