He broke the engagement and my heart along with it! Help please!

[msu_party_girl]

I really need help. I will try to make this as short as possible.

I met a guy in college. Fell in love. We were dating for about 3 years. We broke up once due to a long distance relationship and the fact that it was too hard not to be around me. Here I am, 3 years after we began dating, in a similar situation.

 

We started living together April of last year. Things were going good. We were engaged to be married. We were happy. All of a sudden 2 weeks ago, he handed me a list of problems we had been having. He said there were too many to fix. So he broke the engagement. Along with the engagement, he broke my heart. He was my entire world for 3 years, not to mention my best friend. One of the problems he said we were having was that he looked at other girls like we were not engaged. He always wondered what it would be like to be in a relationship with them. Well, yesterday I found out he is already dating someone else. That makes me feel like I meant nothing to him.

 

I miss him! I want him back. I know he will regret this later. He will want me back just like he did the first time he broke up with me. My question to you is this...should I take him back if the opportunity arises??

 

I tell myself I shouldn't. My family says the same. He will do it all over again, they say. But I love him so much, and I don't want my family, and a wrong decision on my part, to ruin what might be the most important relationship in my life. I think he is the one. How do you tell?

[xalysabethh]

i think its to soon too tell and only you can answer that question me and my husband split up for a few months EVERYONE told me not to take him back but i have decided to take him back and try to wokr on things (i too swore i wouldnt take him back) ou'll have to wait and see who know's you might not even have an oppurtunity i wouldnt worry about that now. just try to get on the best you can.

xalysabeth

[reasontosigh]

Well, yesterday I found out he is already dating someone else. That makes me feel like I meant nothing to him

 

That alone would be enough for me to keep him kicked to the curb.

 

One of the problems he said we were having was that he looked at other girls like we were not engaged. He always wondered what it would be like to be in a relationship with them.

 

Unless he changes significantly in this regard, you can take some form of dubious comfort in the fact that as he has done so to you, so will he do to any and all that come after you.