Lil Lola Posted February 6, 2004 Share Posted February 6, 2004 please please help. I am so confused and heartbroken. I have been dating this guy on and off for awhile. He had to go over the atlantic for a few months and told me to wait for him. When he got home he said he was unable to see me because his friend who is a girl told him she was jealous. he tells me that he does not like her but does not want to hurt her. How should i take this? Is this just a blow off? I know that he really does not like her but it may be an ego thing. Sometimes i think that he likes me but just needs to hurt me. Everything will be going fine and he will just drop a bomb. like "should i go pick up some chicks?". right in the middle of a nice flirty conversation. One time i was going out with friends and he insisted i was going out to meet some guys and threatened to stop talking with me if I went. And he can't...get off...unless he causes me pain during sex. Are these things just his way of telling me he doesn't like me? Every time i try to break away he will say how much he likes me and everything will be fine....for a few days. He says he likes me and that I just need to understand I wont be able to see him for awhile. (because of that girl and he is leaving again shortly) I am tempted to just stop talking to him altogether but I feel so empty without him. Maybe it will be better if it is my choice....what should I do? i am going out of my mind!!!!!!!!!!!! thanks if you have read this much; i really appreciate you putting up with it! Link to post Share on other sites
reasontosigh Posted February 6, 2004 Share Posted February 6, 2004 Sometimes i think that he likes me but just needs to hurt me. Everything will be going fine and he will just drop a bomb. like "should i go pick up some chicks?". right in the middle of a nice flirty conversation. One time i was going out with friends and he insisted i was going out to meet some guys and threatened to stop talking with me if I went. And he can't...get off...unless he causes me pain during sex. Are these things just his way of telling me he doesn't like me? It's shouting that message loud and clear. Every time i try to break away he will say how much he likes me and everything will be fine....for a few days What an insensitive jerk - anything to try to keep you hanging on, eh? The sooner you lose this cretin forever the better off you will be. You may feel empty for a bit, but ultimately that will pass. And when the time comes when you start dating others again, you will wonder how you could have wasted so much time with such a creep in the first place. Link to post Share on other sites
calithin83 Posted February 6, 2004 Share Posted February 6, 2004 he sounds like an idiot dork, if a guy REALLY likes yyou nothing or NO ONE will come between him seeing you!!!....thats just some BS crap, how would he feel if u said that to him???oh u know what i cant see u cos my guy friend is gonna be jealous and i dont wanna make him feel hurt...thats crap....IF the girl is really his friend then why the hell is she getting jealous??? obviosuly theres something sneaky about that, so what hes never gonna have a gf cos of his jealous friend???? thats all bull..i think hes just leadin u on and he [purposely tries to make u feel bad, next time he threatens u to never talk to u agauin when ure gonna go out just say "ok"....dont stop going to places only cos he said so....do u really wanna be with someone whos like this???if its like this now, later it would only be worse.. U deserve RESPECT, LOVE and ATTENTION and if he cant give it to you, well FORGET IT, so many MEN, so many HOT MEN who are actually sweet, it takes time to meet them but hey its worth waiting then sticking to a L-O-S-E-R!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
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