bellacoast Posted February 6, 2004 Share Posted February 6, 2004 I broke up with someone 6 months ago...lasted 4.5 years. miss him but sometimes am relieved b/c I know he wasn't good for me but I am almost losing hope about ever meeting anyone again. met this guy at a party and he asked for my number. couldn't believe after 6 months of being single FINALLY someone asked. but alas, he called and left a message while I was at work, and then I called back and left message. this was a week ago, and he never called back. I was disappointed, but I guess I should prepare myself for stuff like this? does dating get any better? and why do I feel like I will be single for the rest of my life??? thank you for letting me vent. (: Link to post Share on other sites
subtitled Posted February 6, 2004 Share Posted February 6, 2004 people always fear being single when they're not satisfied with themselves. I would say a way of ensuring you won't be single is to start loving being single. When you start to love yourself and life, people will be attracted to your confidence and security. That's the strange thing about being single - you're single probaby because you hate being single. Link to post Share on other sites
carla Posted February 6, 2004 Share Posted February 6, 2004 The secret to finding someone is to stop looking. The harder you look for that significant other the harder he is to find. As soon as you start enjoying your life and friends and doing what you want to do, Pouff There's a good looking guy, and I think he's checking YOU out. Good Luck. Link to post Share on other sites
doniker Posted February 6, 2004 Share Posted February 6, 2004 when I was single I noticed it was all at once or nothing at all. I once went a whole year without a date and then I met 3 women in the course of 2 weeks. I tried dating them all for awhile...man was that hard work!! Link to post Share on other sites
Clumsy Posted February 11, 2004 Share Posted February 11, 2004 Originally posted by subtitled That's the strange thing about being single - you're single probaby because you hate being single. How true it is! Or, in other words: every time when you at last learn to enjoy your own life, there comes someone who wants you to change your ways... Link to post Share on other sites
will_woman Posted February 11, 2004 Share Posted February 11, 2004 I agree with Carla.....do not look for it too hard....when it just pop in front of you....isn't that being more wonderful feeling??? dont' get discouraged by that guy....think that he is not the right one for you...... Just enjoy being single again....who knows when will you meet the next guy again?? Once met, the single life will be put to a ful-stop. Thus, we should all enjoy single moments while we can. That's for me too....just became single after 6 years of relationship. Link to post Share on other sites
Cpunch75 Posted February 11, 2004 Share Posted February 11, 2004 "people always fear being single when they're not satisfied with themselves" How true it is! =) Link to post Share on other sites
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