Somedude Posted February 6, 2004 Share Posted February 6, 2004 I met this girl a little over a month ago, and over the past few weeks, we get really close. I hang out with her and talk on the phone with her. Hell, for one night, we talked for 6 hours. . She knew I was a virgin ever since she met me. So, with that in mind... After we get close, and after she tells me she's attracted to me, and tells every body else that she's attracted to me, she all of a sudden wants to be "just freinds" because I'm a virgin. Thing is, she knew I was a virgin ever since she first met me. Kinda sucks. What do you guys think of it? If it matters, I'm 17 and she's 16. Link to post Share on other sites
amerikajin Posted February 6, 2004 Share Posted February 6, 2004 Is that what she told you?! She said she doesn't want you because you're a virgin?! If I had to guess, it's probably something else that's on her mind. I don't know, but if I had to guess, you may have told her too much. I don't mean by telling her you're a virgin, but if you're telling her all that, who knows what else you've told her? Dude, here's the deal, you keep your distance between yourself and whomever you're dating until you two get to a comfort level. The six hour telephone conversations...not a good idea. In fact, the telephone is only to be used to set up the date. While you two were chatting away, and while your interest in her was getting revved up, her interest in you was sinking. You told her everything about you, which pretty much ruined the intrigue of a first date. You were dating on the phone. And as you found out, when you date on the phone, that doesn't leave much left desire for face-to-face contact. Next time, build a little mystery. Link to post Share on other sites
Captain Nemo Posted February 6, 2004 Share Posted February 6, 2004 I think you should suggest that you're a virgin for now but she could help you change all that. I'm sure most girls would be thrilled at the idea of devirginizing a guy. Normally it's the other way around. Captain Nemo Link to post Share on other sites
monkey00 Posted February 6, 2004 Share Posted February 6, 2004 I agree...god a 6hr chat on the pone?? i've never had that w/ a girl nor a guy ever!! for such a long period of time. the fact that you spoke to her on 6 hrs, she may have had high interest level at first but you killed it literally. there's no more mystery to unravel, she feels there's all there is to know about you and that your life is pretty average. the nonsense about you being a virgin is just an easy excuse for her to say...when the fact is that her interest level had dropped below the 40%'s right under your nose. the fact is that she lied to you, it's not cause of you being a virgin. it's cause you destroyed the mystery and challenge. girls dont realize that consciously, so when they've lost interest in you they always make up some stupid excuse...they do that all the time! Link to post Share on other sites
amerikajin Posted February 6, 2004 Share Posted February 6, 2004 Monkey, you're a quick study, my friend! Good, thorough analysis! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Somedude Posted February 7, 2004 Author Share Posted February 7, 2004 Lol, thanks for the tips guys. I thought that too, that girls think of devirginizing someone as some kind of accomplishment. . So, I guess next time I won't be talking on the phone for half the night. . Link to post Share on other sites
cecelia Posted February 7, 2004 Share Posted February 7, 2004 Yes, look out for a girl who will spend that much time on the phone in the first place. If she isn't a virgin herself, then she is spreading it around and you dont want that if you are saving yourself. Link to post Share on other sites
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