Rackard Posted February 7, 2004 Share Posted February 7, 2004 This a question from my last. How do you turn a girl thats a bitch into someone nice. Her parents are divorce i think that part of the problem. SHe doesnt care anyone or anything. How can you change a bitch into a nice person. WHose afraid of long term realationship. Link to post Share on other sites
monkey00 Posted February 7, 2004 Share Posted February 7, 2004 exactly how is she a bitch? and who is this girl to you? a classmate, friend, acquantence, someone u dont know but met... and her being a bitch, why does it bother you? answering these will help us respond to you Link to post Share on other sites
Author Rackard Posted February 7, 2004 Author Share Posted February 7, 2004 This is a girl i use to date and i am friends with her now. She bitch about not caring about things that are close to her(friends and long term Bf's). I think is because her parents are divorce. If your not dating her she can be a bitch. she is sweet when you hang out with her. however by the end of the night she will turn into a major bitch if she doesn't like something or if you tell her off. Like i have i was sick of **** one night i just yelled at her. She is stubborn about everything. I want to try to help keep her friends now so she wont lose them. I also want her to trust me more and let her know that im there for her. i also want to try to get her to open up more to me. Hope that helps. Link to post Share on other sites
InvinoVeritas Posted February 16, 2004 Share Posted February 16, 2004 Just tell her what you think about her attitude and what not, just be completely honest. It's the only way your gonna get her to look at the way she acts and make a change. However, be prepared to lose her as a friend, because she may not respond well to it, even if it does eventually change her. Do you want me to tell you something really subversive? Love is everything it's cracked up to be. That's why people are so cynical about it. . . . It really is worth fighting for, being brave for, risking everything for. And the trouble is, if you don't risk anything, you risk even more." Erica Jong Link to post Share on other sites
BlockHead Posted February 16, 2004 Share Posted February 16, 2004 Rackard How can you change a bitch into a nice person.You can’t help her if she isn’t willing to help herself. Rackard If your not dating her she can be a bitch. she is sweet when you hang out with her. however by the end of the night she will turn into a major bitch if she doesn't like something or if you tell her off.Sounds like she is completely selfish and inconsiderate. Some people think they have the right to make life as difficult as possible for others. I recommend you avoid her. Link to post Share on other sites
morrigan Posted February 16, 2004 Share Posted February 16, 2004 She's responsible for her behavior and actions. You have to realize that you can't change someone, only they can do that. If her personality aggravates you this much, I'd wouldn't spend time with her. Link to post Share on other sites
Patty Posted February 16, 2004 Share Posted February 16, 2004 You cant change anyone,people are who they are and they have to be willing to change.Its more likely they will change,if they arent pressured to change. Patty Link to post Share on other sites
Papillon Posted February 17, 2004 Share Posted February 17, 2004 Originally posted by Rackard How can you change a bitch into a nice person. You can't. Link to post Share on other sites
Vivid_29 Posted February 17, 2004 Share Posted February 17, 2004 Originally posted by Rackard This a question from my last. How do you turn a girl thats a bitch into someone nice. Her parents are divorce i think that part of the problem. SHe doesnt care anyone or anything. How can you change a bitch into a nice person. WHose afraid of long term realationship. Don't try and change her. You'll never change her, so don't waste your time on this bitch. Just let her be... ~V Link to post Share on other sites
sami Posted April 14, 2004 Share Posted April 14, 2004 If there is a will there is a way. Change should come from within. Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted April 14, 2004 Share Posted April 14, 2004 By the time she changes, you'll be dead...and then what good will it do for you? Link to post Share on other sites
Fedup&givingup Posted April 14, 2004 Share Posted April 14, 2004 Originally posted by Rackard This a question from my last. How do you turn a girl thats a bitch into someone nice. Her parents are divorce i think that part of the problem. SHe doesnt care anyone or anything. How can you change a bitch into a nice person. WHose afraid of long term realationship. If she's such a bitch, why would you care in the first place? Link to post Share on other sites
tattoomytoe Posted April 14, 2004 Share Posted April 14, 2004 well i had a good friend that was a spoiled rotten , self centered, bitch. she argued with her family, to the point the she got ulcers. she was pretty and she dated a lot. well she met her now husband, and maybe it was her loving him and their love that helped her blossom...then she had a baby, and she is one of the nicest sweetest, selfless people i know am priviledged to know. Link to post Share on other sites
sami Posted April 14, 2004 Share Posted April 14, 2004 That is the way she is: Either love it or leave it. Link to post Share on other sites
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