Tayla Posted July 15, 2010 Share Posted July 15, 2010 Straight forward to the meat of the matter. My son is getting married. This will be his second marriage. He has a child from prior marriage. His Ex-Wife who whilst a decent parent to my grandson is your poster Girl for Evil ex-wife. She most recently went into panic mode realizing that my son is about to replace HER . She thinks the world revolves around ALL her needs and wants. He has never been fond of her after the divorce and the less contact the better. She messages him to totally throw a wrench into the big nuptial day. She demands that she be allowed at the reception to pick up her son. She doesn't feel comfortable with any of the immediate family members bringing her son home. They might be drunk . For reference sake, this is a NON ALCOHOL wedding out of due respect to past family histories. She is coming up with every reason imaginable to be there. ( Kinda creepy if you ask me). So I advised my son to call his lawyer and see what he can do to A: Keep her away from his joyful day and B: Grant permission for a responsible adult to get my grandson home from the function without her throwing a hissy fit. So far she has Disrespected and even said she doesnt want "HER" son(age 7) at the wedding because he is just too upset that his dad is remarrying! What???!! He loves his Dad and everytime he is around he enjoys his soon to be step mom. He has never given indication that he was nervous or afraid. They include him in every step of this event. So what gives? And how can I get my son back on track to be enjoying this event without worrying about it being ruined. What would you say to your son when such upheaval happens? His betrothed is a lovely lady and has kept her mouth shut up until this recent annoucement. I fear this may get ugly... Link to post Share on other sites
Author Tayla Posted July 23, 2010 Author Share Posted July 23, 2010 Things got worked out! Thanks for reading this post and taking the time to remain silent. Sometimes it speaks volumes! Actions (even non actions) say so much! Going to enjoy this special family event knowing what really matters Link to post Share on other sites
PortuguesePrincess80 Posted July 26, 2010 Share Posted July 26, 2010 LOL..would love to know what happpend? Did he go see the lawyer? Link to post Share on other sites
linwood Posted July 26, 2010 Share Posted July 26, 2010 I would simply have your sons friends dressed as usher/doormen at the wedding to detain this witch and call a cop if and when she shows up. Before she can cause any crap. Inform her before the date that there will be security of this sort at the wedding who have been specific instructions not to allow her in if she should show. Let her know she runs the risk of arrest if she does. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Tayla Posted July 27, 2010 Author Share Posted July 27, 2010 yes he had to seek legal advisal under the circumstances. The bride and groom had a lovely evening. This makes for a lovely example of how ex- spouses need to move on. THe misery was in the marriage (her perspective), leave it there...IT has no place in the future of others lives....(my sons perspective). My grandson was especially dapper and well behaved so that made for a pleasant evening . Link to post Share on other sites
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