unconventional relationship

[vodkafan]

Hopefully VF is getting something out of all the different viewpoints.

 

Yes I think I am. For instance, xxoo's thoughts on my wife's motivations have been very insightful. Gorilla theater has put his viewpoint without being crude or disparaging. CCL is closest to understanding what it feels like. I appreciate the people who have tried to look at it with an open mind. And somebody said they could see me going through different stages by the evidence of my posts. That hit home, I could see there was some truth in that.

I think for that reason I need to stay off here for a month, just get on with it. When/if I come back...well we'll see.

 

Thanks all.

[crazycatlady]

Yes I think I am. For instance, xxoo's thoughts on my wife's motivations have been very insightful. Gorilla theater has put his viewpoint without being crude or disparaging. CCL is closest to understanding what it feels like. I appreciate the people who have tried to look at it with an open mind. And somebody said they could see me going through different stages by the evidence of my posts. That hit home, I could see there was some truth in that.

I think for that reason I need to stay off here for a month, just get on with it. When/if I come back...well we'll see.

 

Thanks all.

 

Best of luck to you, Vodka. May you have peace, happiness, and enjoyment in which ever road you choose to follow.

[Silly_Girl]

Best of luck to you, Vodka. May you have peace, happiness, and enjoyment in which ever road you choose to follow.

 

Indeed. VF, so often on the boards (and IRL) couples are floundering because they're moving in different directions, and the will just is NOT there. You clearly are committed to this, and I think if you're going to do it - do it properly.