purplehouse Posted July 17, 2010 Share Posted July 17, 2010 Ok so have known a guy for a few years through his work. Pretty sure there was always an attraction there but we were both in relationships and were always on professional yet friendly terms. Keep in mind we have only met about 6 times in 4 years, but he always remembered me. So i hadn't seen him in about 11 months and during this time i came out of a long term relationship and so did he. I saw him 2 weeks ago again and we ended up briefly chatting about our ended relationships, and it was really nice to talk to him. He asked me a lot of questions, made some light jokes and looked at me a lot... and i was still very attracted to him and i sensed it from him too. So he had to contact me in a couple of days regarding a delivery and aksed if he minded texting the info instead. I said yes that was fine and took it as an indication of interest.. So i went against all the rules and sent him a text on Saturday night after a couple of drinks!! i know very bad... All i said was 'i hope you're having a good weekend ' He replied with a fairly lengthy text about his weekend and asked how mine was. He then said he as finishing up at work and thought it was a shame cause he was hoping to see me again and did i want to catch up for a coffee? I accepted and we ended up texting back and forth for the next couple of days. he even said sweet dreams a couple of times and also asked me to text him when i got back from a long 6 hour drive. He also said we could do dinner and a movie but was worried he'd scare me off... He also tried to call twice but i can't get recpetion at my house for phone calls so couldn't answer So i took all this as definite interest. he asked me when i am free for the coffee and i suggested Monday..... Ok so today i haven't heard from him at all... To be honest the whole texting thing was starting to take over so i am glad we have both seemed to pull back from it a bit but does this mean he has lost interest already?? He is a genuinely decent guy so i don't think he'd try to muck me around... i hate texting. never again Link to post Share on other sites
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