Thedudeabidez Posted July 19, 2010 Share Posted July 19, 2010 After 5 months of no contact, as issued by her, she contacts me through Facebook. She broke up with me, a couple of weeks later started dating some one else. That lasted about 2 months. A few weeks later she sent me a message saying that she had wanted to call me to hang out but didn't remember my number. She said she wanted to just be friends, but I don't think she is the type. She claims she became friends with a few other exes but I don't think that's completely true. After a few days she acted like it was all for show and didn't really want to hang out. I told her to forget it and never contact me again. After all she was the one that left me in the first place. What do you ladies and gentlemen think this girl truly wanted from me? What did she want to happen? Link to post Share on other sites
Username37 Posted July 19, 2010 Share Posted July 19, 2010 Maybe the girl feels bad for dumping you and her offering of friendship is just for her to feel better about herself. Off Topic: The Big Lebowski = greatest movie ever Link to post Share on other sites
daphne Posted July 22, 2010 Share Posted July 22, 2010 Maybe she was lonely and hit you up for attention. It's usually the guy who tries to be friends, but unless you guys were really good friends before or during dating, I think it was just a ruse. Sounds like too many headgames. Link to post Share on other sites
NancyBotwin Posted July 22, 2010 Share Posted July 22, 2010 She probably broke up with her latest bf, and thought you might be an easy ego stroke. Good for you for telling her to get lost! Link to post Share on other sites
paleblue Posted July 23, 2010 Share Posted July 23, 2010 She probably broke up with her latest bf, and thought you might be an easy ego stroke. Good for you for telling her to get lost! totally. she was just looking for an ego stroke to make herself feel better. she doesnt really give two shakes. good job telling her how you felt. Link to post Share on other sites
selena_cat Posted August 7, 2010 Share Posted August 7, 2010 Maybe the girl feels bad for dumping you and her offering of friendship is just for her to feel better about herself. Off Topic: The Big Lebowski = greatest movie ever Oh so that makes it okay,man go total NC on this Man eater,drop it like a hot potatoe! Of topic: Like Water for Chocolate is indeed the greatest movie ever made in this planet and Universe! Link to post Share on other sites
6609510 Posted August 7, 2010 Share Posted August 7, 2010 You had me until you said she changed her mind and didn't want to hang out with you. These other folks are right. Women don't suddenly make contact with someone they used to or still care about only to shun them immediately after unless they have deep psychological issues and are playing games. You did the right thing. Glad you're rid of her. Link to post Share on other sites
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