k4byrd Posted July 20, 2010 Share Posted July 20, 2010 I feel like im losing my boyfriend of a year and a half! Just today he didnt talk to much at all! He played basketball with some buddies today because he was bored and didnt feel like talkin to me! Then later he said he was going get on messenger and talk to me and i get on and wait and wait and wait on him to get on and he never shows...so i text him and say hey when you gettin on and he says i will in a bit cuz im resting rite now cuz im tired from basketball so i say ok! Then a few minutes later he calls and says hey i was gunna get on but some of the ppl i work with want me to go play soccer with them so im gunna go play soccer so i say ok! then a few minutes later he calls and asked wat was wrong with me and i say im just a lil upset that you havent talked much to me all day and he gets mad and says i dnt go and play soccer everyday so you shouldnt even be upset over it and i tell him i was gunna let it slide and you the one who called me askin wat was wrong so i told you wat was wrong! then we talk a lil bit about it then he says hold on and the next thing i know the phone says call ended! So he calls back 5 min later and im like hello hello and all i hear is him talkin to someone in the back ground then i hear uhhh then call ends then 3 minutes later he calls and im like you just hung up on me 2 times and all he says is sorry i was talkin to someone and its rude to talk on the phone when someone talkin to you so sorry then he says im here to play so ill text you or call you when i get done love you bye! Does this sound like he is cheating? Does this sound like he is losing interest? I feel like he treats me like just another one of his friends...what should i do about this? How do i fix our relationship to make him treat me like he loves me again? Help me please!!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
aerogurl87 Posted July 20, 2010 Share Posted July 20, 2010 First off calm down! No it doesn't even sound remotely like he's cheating. And maybe he is losing interest, or maybe just maybe he's enjoying a day with his friends. It's highly possible you know. Link to post Share on other sites
Author k4byrd Posted July 20, 2010 Author Share Posted July 20, 2010 Its not only today that i have to deal with stuff like this! He has been treatin me like just another one of his friends lately! And it sux Link to post Share on other sites
aerogurl87 Posted July 20, 2010 Share Posted July 20, 2010 If it sucks so bad why don't you just tell him how you feel in a calm manner? Or better yet just ignore him for a bit like he's been ignoring you. Then either he'll start trying to communicate more with you or fall off the face of the Earth. Either way, you'll get an answer then. Link to post Share on other sites
nemi26 Posted July 20, 2010 Share Posted July 20, 2010 wow sounds like you spend too much time together and you are not use to him being with friends and now your worried. honestly he isn't cheating, you just got to give him space for his friends and you do the same by doing this you'll enjoy spending time together much more and also look forward to it, this will really help your relationshiop. Actually seeing each other alot is so so so bad, did i mention it was so bad? Link to post Share on other sites
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