Having a hard time getting over this fwb, very very heartbroken :(

[enchanted771]

I was in a fwb with this guy for a long time. I wanted a relationship, he didnt so i ended things. He wanted to then have a platonic friendship with me. That was fine, I didnt want to go NC with him. The only problem is, I cant seem to get over him!!! he doesn't want me out of his life, obviously and vice versa, but its just so hard. I know he sees women, and probably spend the weekend with some. But this though makes me so ill and heartbroken. I am so supposed to see him in a couple days to have a couple drinks as friends. But I am wondering if this will do more harm than good??

 

WHat can i do? I want to move on, but he is all I think about. So heartbroken, and this isnt fair. I am attractive, funny, good hearted and he has never done anything for me. He gives just enough to keep you satisfied for a while, but never enough.

[LucreziaBorgia]

Getting over him will be next to impossible as long as you are still hanging out with him. You will need some time without him in your life for a while until you are over the pain. Until then, staying in contact with him will only prolong it.

[enchanted771]

I understand. I tried being friends (w/no benefits) with him, but would get so emotional when I didn't hear from him, or if he took hours to respond to my texts. But then i stopped and told myself that he isn't my bf, so he has no obligation to respond to my texts fast, or contact me every other day. But I think i need 2-3 months in solitude, before we can ever even think of being friends, its just so hard. Plus, whenever we are talking, and i tell him i am going to have a drink with my friend, or movies, or whatever he questions me and asks if its a date, acting all jealous. What right does he have to act all possessive and jealous if we arent even in a relationship? Its wierd, its like fwb but with strings. Cant have it both ways. He's just got mad issues.