will_woman Posted February 9, 2004 Share Posted February 9, 2004 I posted my story a few months ago..where my husband cheated on me when he went overseas for work. The thread was husband found new love at foreign land. After I went over to join him for only 2 weeks, he started to chase me back home. I left him and came back to my country. COunting the days, I left him for 4 months. He still insisted on divorce (he is using void marriage) and even engaged the lawyer. Now, we are midst of the case...as things are complex as I feel that he gotta compensate me for my income loss (as I resigned to join him). Anyway, he cannot find a ground for divorce as he is the wrong party. My lawyer advise me to go on 3 years separation. And we can see if his new girl can wait for him 3 years. I went for counselling last week. The counsellor asked me whether do I still want this relationship? I answered yes and when she asked me why......I realised I cannot answer why I want the relationship. This part is now troubling me. I cannot answer further on why I want the relationship or even if I said I do not want the relationship. What is wrong with me? Why am I still confused? I do not know if I still love him after he has done me so much wrong. That's why I posted what is love 2 days ago. I am just very confused now. Link to post Share on other sites
supermom Posted February 11, 2004 Share Posted February 11, 2004 I feel you, I've been in a simular situation with my ex husband. It's hard when your marriage is ending because when you did marry you expected it to be forever. This is a turning point in your life and eventually you will see it is for the better. Good luck sweetie, I know it's hard but you'll get through it. Link to post Share on other sites
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