White Flower Posted August 7, 2010 Share Posted August 7, 2010 Well, I am going to tell her. Telling her directly myself will come back to bite my friend in the as*. My telling the OW will also make my friend angry simply because the divorce has just been finalized and she is still very angry. So, I want to do the right thing - because I do believe that it is the decent thing to do. What I'm struggling with: Can I tell her anonymously? I know its cheap. I am not an anonymous kind of person. But really...I think she would find it more believable coming from an unknown than from her former MM's recently dumped wife's best friend. Still, maybe its cowardly. I dont want to live like that.Tell her any way you're comfortable with. It's not in how you tell it that makes it right, just that you do. Her husband's STD prescription meds can always mistakenly be delivered to her! LMAO! BWahhahahha!! Sorry, I don't mean to be evil but I find it hilarious. Yes, be very careful what you wish for because when you get it, it may not be exactly as you had hoped for!!!!!! She's def going to feel really special! Love it! Its not ABOUT the OW or what she "should" get. Its about having information another SHOULD know - in this case, that her (the OW's) partner has an incurable STD. Placing everything else aside, having this information REQUIRES it be told. She knows and she must divulge. Its not about the OW at all. Its about 2Sure having life altering medical information. Because she has it and knows it to be true, she has a duty to tell. TO NOT tell is unethical for 2sure. Do no harm nor allow it through inaction to come to pass.Excellent post. It's possible that the OW was the one that gave it to him, and already knows. Could be true, but we just can't know for sure. If it is true, she is just getting re-confirmed info from 2sure. It it isn't, 2sure has done her duty. Either way, 2sure feels good about her part in getting the truth out there. Link to post Share on other sites
Brokenlady Posted August 8, 2010 Share Posted August 8, 2010 2sure, I thinks it's really honorable that you want to do the right thing here, but at the end of the day, you have no obligation to these people. You can't save people from their own stupidity. And frankly, its really frustrating to try cause it almost never works. Take care of yourself. Link to post Share on other sites
califnan Posted August 8, 2010 Share Posted August 8, 2010 I thought this was Melowoman's thread. Link to post Share on other sites
SpanksTheMonkey Posted August 8, 2010 Share Posted August 8, 2010 Do you think an OW who marries her MM is more or less likely to put up with her man's next affair? I think most OW would rather poke their eyes out with a hot spoon then admit that there afraid he may cheat on them as well. either that or they allow them selves to be diluted into thinking that some how there new relashionship is bullet proof! Since MM is now liveing his fairy tale cause after all the OW saved him from a life of misery I dunno I think once a cheater almost always a cheater once he gets tired of the new marriage he will stray again. After all it worked so well the 1st time around I also think cheating MM will bank on the OWs desperation to believe it wont happen to them.. Why not have their cake and eat it too if it works.. Link to post Share on other sites
twinsmom Posted August 8, 2010 Share Posted August 8, 2010 I thought this was Melowoman's thread. I can't even believe this. Califnan has no problem interjecting her religious beliefs into almost EVERY thread, mostly unasked for, but has a problem with a perceived threadjack from others. How hyprocritical. Link to post Share on other sites
califnan Posted August 8, 2010 Share Posted August 8, 2010 I can't even believe this. Califnan has no problem interjecting her religious beliefs into almost EVERY thread, mostly unasked for, but has a problem with a perceived threadjack from others. How hyprocritical. ----------------------- Well believe it "twinsmom" .. And yes I have been called out for "jacking" by other LS members (LS police) .. to the point of their even calling in Tony.. But this thread went on for the last pages of jacking.. to the point it wasn't even recognizeable.. Got to feeling sorry for OP. Link to post Share on other sites
pureinheart Posted August 8, 2010 Share Posted August 8, 2010 I can't even believe this. Califnan has no problem interjecting her religious beliefs into almost EVERY thread, mostly unasked for, but has a problem with a perceived threadjack from others. How hyprocritical. "perceived", "hypocritical"...interesting.... Link to post Share on other sites
JamieA Posted August 8, 2010 Share Posted August 8, 2010 I can't even believe this. Califnan has no problem interjecting her religious beliefs into almost EVERY thread, mostly unasked for, but has a problem with a perceived thread jack from others. How hypocritical. I agree. She has no class, no manners, & no flexibility outside of her "belief" (brainwashing). ----------------------- Well believe it "twinsmom" .. And yes I have been called out for "jacking" by other LS members (LS police) .. to the point of their even calling in Tony.. But this thread went on for the last pages of jacking.. to the point it wasn't even recognizable.. Got to feeling sorry for OP. As did I for noelle303 when you managed to get 2 of her threads shutdown for thread jacking. She may be gone forever now. Proud of yourself? Link to post Share on other sites
Silly_Girl Posted August 8, 2010 Share Posted August 8, 2010 -------------------- Mission accomplished with Noelle. Aside from myself and a few others trying to show her a happy future with her child.. The LS single mother testimonies were extremely valuable and encouraging.. She went home to her conservative parents.. If she still aborted, it wasn't my fault. You genuinely scare me sometimes. Link to post Share on other sites
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