commonlife Posted August 4, 2010 Share Posted August 4, 2010 here we go her : how are you doing me : great, doing lots of things her : I would like to talk about where we are heading me : ok her : but i am scared me : oh? won't bit you know her : ok, if you'r dating you can tell me and tell me if we should stay in contact her : but then we don't need to talk me: I am not dating we can talk her : NC for a week waiting for suggestions have fun Link to post Share on other sites
bonpaw2008 Posted August 4, 2010 Share Posted August 4, 2010 here we go her : how are you doing me : great, doing lots of things her : I would like to talk about where we are heading me : ok her : but i am scared me : oh? won't bit you know her : ok, if you'r dating you can tell me and tell me if we should stay in contact her : but then we don't need to talk me: I am not dating we can talk her : NC for a week waiting for suggestions have fun her: hi you: hi her: I just popped in to **** with your head a bit you: ok her: just had to set the hook a bit tighter because I was getting the feeling you were getting over me, we can't have that you: ok her: now I am not going to talk to you and make you crazy again, but I will be back sorry dude Link to post Share on other sites
cookie2 Posted August 4, 2010 Share Posted August 4, 2010 Her: Hi, just want to check you're still thinking about me? You: Yes Her: We're not getting back together but I want to keep you around. You: OK Her: Please don't insult me for ripping your heart out and ****ting into your chest cavity You: I promise. Her: Can I use and abuse you please? You: Yep I'm still on the line... speak to you in a month! Link to post Share on other sites
commonlife Posted August 4, 2010 Share Posted August 4, 2010 awesom, you just had me laughing aloud Link to post Share on other sites
cookie2 Posted August 4, 2010 Share Posted August 4, 2010 (edited) I've got a "backwards" one for you tonight... Things with STBXW ended kind of weirdly. She left to "sort out what she wants". Next day she came round and picked up a load of her stuff. Day after I asked her to put her key through the letter box and she did. I did the whiney ex thing that we all seem to do before I came to my senses. Text conversation went: Me: Post your key through the letter box pls Her: So that's it? Me: When/if you come back you can have the key again Her: OK. U alright? Me: (NC for 8 days) So the question is... I want to tell her, "YES that is IT... come get your stuff and see you in divorce court". But the caveat is... I want to keep her friendly. If she turned hostile to me then she could make a play for my house (such is the UK legal system). I wish I could NC til the divorce but her stuff is taking up half my living room!! Any suggestions? Edited August 4, 2010 by cookie2 Link to post Share on other sites
Thorgs Posted August 5, 2010 Share Posted August 5, 2010 "I tried calling but I guess you don't want to talk to me. I'm sorry! I'm in isolation for now but just wanted to say thanks for doing what you do!!!" What's it mean? Link to post Share on other sites
spyyder Posted August 5, 2010 Share Posted August 5, 2010 "I tried calling but I guess you don't want to talk to me. I'm sorry! I'm in isolation for now but just wanted to say thanks for doing what you do!!!" Translation: I miss being able to let you down, saying no to you, ignoring your calls and telling you to **** off. Why aren't you calling me so I can tell you to **** off! I miss being able to ignore you so so much!!! Your doing a great job buddy. You must be doing things right for her to message you that. Keep going NC, it seems to be working for you. Link to post Share on other sites
smk Posted August 5, 2010 Share Posted August 5, 2010 there has been some mail for you and I was wondering what you want me to do with it (mind its a letter that was sent at the end of june) oh and I hope you received your jacket that I sent back and i put some of the little bits that you had left at my house in the pocket = you have been NC for 3 weeks and I saw you yesterday and you didnt react how I expected you to so I am trying to see what reaction I can get out of you and checking if you have moved on or are you still pining for me - ps hears a little breadcrumb Link to post Share on other sites
bonpaw2008 Posted August 5, 2010 Share Posted August 5, 2010 there has been some mail for you and I was wondering what you want me to do with it (mind its a letter that was sent at the end of june) oh and I hope you received your jacket that I sent back and i put some of the little bits that you had left at my house in the pocket = you have been NC for 3 weeks and I saw you yesterday and you didnt react how I expected you to so I am trying to see what reaction I can get out of you and checking if you have moved on or are you still pining for me - ps hears a little breadcrumb HEY NO FAIR!!! You aren't supposed to answer, that is our job Link to post Share on other sites
smk Posted August 5, 2010 Share Posted August 5, 2010 HEY NO FAIR!!! You aren't supposed to answer, that is our job go on paw - lets hear your version of it... BTW she wants to meet for a coffee?????hehehehehehe Link to post Share on other sites
bonpaw2008 Posted August 5, 2010 Share Posted August 5, 2010 go on paw - lets hear your version of it... BTW she wants to meet for a coffee?????hehehehehehe It would have been the same You know what you need, and it is not the girl that quit you....be strong...you must have been looking hot the other day Link to post Share on other sites
smk Posted August 5, 2010 Share Posted August 5, 2010 It would have been the same You know what you need, and it is not the girl that quit you....be strong...you must have been looking hot the other day I always look hot - what can I say - lots of ladies to please...LOL.... Actually I was dressed down quite a bit, shirt with rolled up sleeves cos of the hot weather, no suit jacket, just a pair of trousers, headphones plugged in, hair a little bit of a mess.... Link to post Share on other sites
kelsmommy Posted August 5, 2010 Share Posted August 5, 2010 Okay, this thread is fun, let me jump in again "Um, hi, it's me. Can you just tell my son that his daddy loves him and misses him a lot? Thanks" My thing is, if he misses my son so much, why won't you pick up the phone and talk to him? Geez, what a douche! Link to post Share on other sites
bonpaw2008 Posted August 5, 2010 Share Posted August 5, 2010 Okay, this thread is fun, let me jump in again "Um, hi, it's me. Can you just tell my son that his daddy loves him and misses him a lot? Thanks" My thing is, if he misses my son so much, why won't you pick up the phone and talk to him? Geez, what a douche! translates into: "Hi, it's me, I want to use our son as an excuse for meaningless contact with you. How are you? Oh wait I really don't care I just want to make sure that you are always thinking about me....aren't I just great??" Link to post Share on other sites
kelsmommy Posted August 5, 2010 Share Posted August 5, 2010 LMAO! Don't worry about me thinking of you, dear ex. I promise. I'm not. Link to post Share on other sites
LizS Posted August 8, 2010 Share Posted August 8, 2010 He contacted me a week ago with this. I had a show the next day and have recently started eating meat after being a vegetarian for 10 years to help gain muscle for dance auditions. He must have found out from a mutual friend/facebook. This was on gmail chat. Him: Hey, good luck at your show tomorrow. Me: (5 hours later) thanks. Him: (immediately) no problem, so are you really eating meat? (he signs off ten minutes later and hasn't tried to contact me again, but has been online and has seen me online) ???? Is it wrong of me to be a little amused by this? Link to post Share on other sites
bonpaw2008 Posted August 9, 2010 Share Posted August 9, 2010 He contacted me a week ago with this. I had a show the next day and have recently started eating meat after being a vegetarian for 10 years to help gain muscle for dance auditions. He must have found out from a mutual friend/facebook. This was on gmail chat. Him: Hey, good luck at your show tomorrow. Me: (5 hours later) thanks. Him: (immediately) no problem, so are you really eating meat? (he signs off ten minutes later and hasn't tried to contact me again, but has been online and has seen me online) ???? Is it wrong of me to be a little amused by this? Him - hi it's me telling you something useless so you have to think about me you - silence Him - I can't believe you are finally getting over me and not telling me everything....oh well NICE JOB!!! Link to post Share on other sites
twisted&alone Posted August 12, 2010 Share Posted August 12, 2010 Him: This relationship is over. It can't be fixed. I don't know who I am anymore; who knows what the future holds. You know that saying... Me: In six weeks this is your decision...you are right; I'm sorry Him: I've never stopped loving you, but the madness has to stop; no counseling nothing can fix this...(I don't know why I haven't touched you in two years) Me: I hate this and I'm sorry... Him: I could use a DVD player and DVDs Me: Ok; I will drop them off tomorrow Him: I appreciate it This was sent by text two minutes later: Him:Thank you for your time and honesty. BTW you looked DYNOMITE!!! Him: NC Link to post Share on other sites
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