SilentVoice Posted July 23, 2010 Share Posted July 23, 2010 Hi all! (Waves) Not too sure if this is the right category ...but I tend to post here all other times... so sobeit Back-story I live in an apartment building owned by my mother. I share a floor with my roommate (best friend). The building has a free floor that my mother keeps for family and when she is down for the summer. So it is summer time so my sister is here most weekends. I have other cousins who stop by. And best of all; my mother is here. Ok I am at the tender age of 19, so mom is still mom. Ok let us get to the point. The guy I am effing (to be politically correct). May pick me up from time to time or we may sit outside. Let us just say he makes minor appearances .I am not too keen of ****ing where I eat to be precise. Anyhow since the sister and cousin are around they tend to see him from time to time. And if you know my family; information never stays one place. So now mom knows. I have never had a real-real relationship with someone where I felt the need to introduce them to my mother. I am not too sure what her problem is but now she seems obsessed with meeting this boy. I have been trying to feed her we are just friends bs.But spending a night at a friends house is very unlikely to be correct(so I have stopped doing that).I have allot of respect from my mother. I in no way live by anyone’s morals besides my own but I really rather just keep the info to minimum when it comes to her. So the questions are... How do I tell my mother to back off without spreading too much info? (I don't think my mother can deal with me telling her this is just someone I am effing... she may just have a heart attack) Since she is obsessed with meeting him one day, how do I guide her away from this? Why do my sister still run back and tell my mother everything about me? She is like 30!!(Ok you don’t have to answer this loll) Thanks in advance Ls'ers Link to post Share on other sites
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