body language-how does one come on to a girl without "coming on too strong?"

[Mikki Mars]

one of my problems has been that I've been told that I come on too strong to girls, especially when I'm krunked. I suspect that might be related to body language. What are some good tips to successfully either get a number or more without repelling or creeping a girl out?

[Enchanted Girl]

Well, it would help if you tell us what you do that comes on as too strong, since it might not be body language at all.

 

If it is body language though . . . . . It's probably related to your inability to read THEIR body language. A woman will give you signals if it's okay to lean in close or touch her, but if she's backing away from you a lot or looking in another direction, then you're probably doing something physically that she feels means that you are invading her space.

[monkeymaid]

go out, drink less, watch male female interactions and you will be able to see what works and what doesnt based on other peoples body language.

 

genuine interest in a person and the ability to have no expectations helps a whole lot as well. when you arent trying to get laid, but are having a good time is usually when you will get laid

 

oh, did i mention drink less.