PixieStix Posted July 25, 2010 Share Posted July 25, 2010 So after ending our 2+ year relationship about a month and a half ago, my ex is getting married next month! I thought it was more than interesting enough that he moved out with some woman after talking to her for 4 days on the phone, but now he is getting married next month when she did not even have her own place. I honestly have no idea why, when, where, how or when...all I know is this is NUTS! At this point, I seriously doubt he is going to come to his senses anytime soon and come back to what used to be his "home" or me. All I can do now is let things happen and sit back and watch. Has anyone else had anything like this ever happen? Or am I the only one stuck in what appears to be a really bad episode of Jerry Springer? Anybody have any idea what they think is going on here? Link to post Share on other sites
USMCHokie Posted July 25, 2010 Share Posted July 25, 2010 So after ending our 2+ year relationship about a month and a half ago, my ex is getting married next month! I thought it was more than interesting enough that he moved out with some woman after talking to her for 4 days on the phone, but now he is getting married next month when she did not even have her own place. I honestly have no idea why, when, where, how or when...all I know is this is NUTS! Who cares...? At this point, I seriously doubt he is going to come to his senses anytime soon and come back to what used to be his "home" or me. All I can do now is let things happen and sit back and watch. Who cares...? I have answered your questions below. Has anyone else had anything like this ever happen? Irrelevant. Or am I the only one stuck in what appears to be a really bad episode of Jerry Springer? Irrelevant. Anybody have any idea what they think is going on here? Irrelevant. You cannot start the process of healing and moving on so long as you continue to ask yourself these questions or dwell on what your ex is or isn't doing now. Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted July 25, 2010 Share Posted July 25, 2010 Who cares...? Who cares...? I have answered your questions below. Irrelevant. Irrelevant. Irrelevant. You cannot start the process of healing and moving on so long as you continue to ask yourself these questions or dwell on what your ex is or isn't doing now. What he said... Link to post Share on other sites
Thorgs Posted July 25, 2010 Share Posted July 25, 2010 I say just get some popcorn and watch the show. I know what USM said is cold...but it's his life and if he wants to screw it up then there's not much you can do. I'm sorry you have to go through that...it can't feel good at all. I know what getting slapped in the face feels like (figuratively speaking) and know you must be hurting. Link to post Share on other sites
Author PixieStix Posted July 25, 2010 Author Share Posted July 25, 2010 (edited) Thanks for the reply . We are still pseudo-friends but only because we have a business together and financial issues to deal with. However, I know there is no second chance there and they say Karma is a wonderful thing. And I cannot say my heart would be broken nor I would be sad to see it all blow up in his face. I guess I was just more or less blowing off steam and curious to see if all men were that stupid. Edited July 25, 2010 by PixieStix Link to post Share on other sites
USMCHokie Posted July 25, 2010 Share Posted July 25, 2010 I guess I was just more or less blowing off steam and curious to see if all men were that stupid. Not all, but a good number of them are... Link to post Share on other sites
Author PixieStix Posted July 25, 2010 Author Share Posted July 25, 2010 Apparently I had one of them... Link to post Share on other sites
Thorgs Posted July 25, 2010 Share Posted July 25, 2010 Not all, but a good number of them are... Possibly all the ones that don't have an LS account... Link to post Share on other sites
Author PixieStix Posted July 26, 2010 Author Share Posted July 26, 2010 All I know is that if some man asked me to marry him in a week, I wouldn't just run...I would run Forrest, run as far away in the other direction as I could and never look back. Link to post Share on other sites
Thorgs Posted July 26, 2010 Share Posted July 26, 2010 All I know is that if some man asked me to marry him in a week, I wouldn't just run...I would run Forrest, run as far away in the other direction as I could and never look back. No way, I think you would say yes if it was George Clooney... Link to post Share on other sites
Author PixieStix Posted July 26, 2010 Author Share Posted July 26, 2010 Well okay, maybe Brad Pitt... Link to post Share on other sites
AlwaysConflicted Posted July 26, 2010 Share Posted July 26, 2010 Is it possible he was seeing/talking to her before you broke up? Or maybe, it's love at 1st sight? Link to post Share on other sites
YellowShark Posted July 26, 2010 Share Posted July 26, 2010 So after ending our 2+ year relationship about a month and a half ago, my ex is getting married next month! Wow. He doesn't waste any time does he? I thought it was more than interesting enough that he moved out with some woman after talking to her for 4 days on the phone, but now he is getting married next month when she did not even have her own place. I honestly have no idea why, when, where, how or when...all I know is this is NUTS! Ya. It's totally nuts. How can anyone on Earth possibly know they want to marry someone that they barely know. It's recipe for disaster. Is it possible that they were carrying on during you relationship and he's lying about the time he's known her? At this point, I seriously doubt he is going to come to his senses anytime soon and come back to what used to be his "home" or me. You don't want him. He obviously has serious issues. All I can do now is let things happen and sit back and watch. Yup. Grab a bag of popcorn and enjoy the show. Should be quite the train wreck in no time. Or am I the only one stuck in what appears to be a really bad episode of Jerry Springer? My breakup was a total episode of Jerry Springer. My EX of 7 years was cheating on me with an ex-good friend... who is married... and his wife is pregnant. The wife will be giving birth next month. Now that's serious Jerry territory! Anybody have any idea what they think is going on here? I find it easier to believe that they were cheating on you during your relationship, and have decided to marry rather than they are getting married after a month knowing each other. Well okay, maybe Brad Pitt... After 4 years of marriage Brad Pitt cheated on Jennifer Anniston to be with Angelina. Remember that. Link to post Share on other sites
Author PixieStix Posted July 26, 2010 Author Share Posted July 26, 2010 Actually no, he did not know her and was not seeing her before this. His time was accounted for between work and home up until the breakup, no other phone calls on his cell. So it kind of means he has issues...LMAO! Yes it should be quite the train wreck. Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted July 26, 2010 Share Posted July 26, 2010 But his train wreck.... He gets to live his life any way he wants to.... Link to post Share on other sites
Author PixieStix Posted July 26, 2010 Author Share Posted July 26, 2010 Yep as long as it does not affect me financially I do not care. When that train crashes into my bank account, then its my business. Link to post Share on other sites
Author PixieStix Posted July 26, 2010 Author Share Posted July 26, 2010 So until then I wish dumb and dumber bliss Link to post Share on other sites
Thorgs Posted July 26, 2010 Share Posted July 26, 2010 Yep as long as it does not affect me financially I do not care. When that train crashes into my bank account, then its my business. I've never heard of a bank being built on a railroad track. That's just silly IMO. Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted July 26, 2010 Share Posted July 26, 2010 So until then I wish dumb and dumber bliss This too will subside.. Anger is a welcome stage in healing.. Welcome.. before long you will feel indifference.. Link to post Share on other sites
Author PixieStix Posted July 26, 2010 Author Share Posted July 26, 2010 Well I plan on basking in it until I get some good satisfaction Link to post Share on other sites
Author PixieStix Posted July 26, 2010 Author Share Posted July 26, 2010 I've never heard of a bank being built on a railroad track. That's just silly IMO. Well apparently you don't have the same bank as me! Link to post Share on other sites
Thorgs Posted July 26, 2010 Share Posted July 26, 2010 Well apparently you don't have the same bank as me! You must have Bank of America...they would be stupid enough to pull a stunt like this, only to look for a bailout! Link to post Share on other sites
aerogurl87 Posted July 26, 2010 Share Posted July 26, 2010 Something similar happened to me, but I found out my boyfriend had been talking to his new woman for about 2 weeks before he left me for her. So what happened was, we had been together for 5 months through some really hard times like his suicide attempt, him going to counselling, his dad being abusive to him, and him getting kicked out of college. I was there for him through everything and he told me I was "the one". Anyway I find out after he breaks up with me that he plans to move to the west coast of Canada (he lived in Boston) in a month with this woman 23 years his senior that he's never met. He has no job skills mind you, no passport, and yet his plan is to hop on a plane and move away. I laughed at him, waiting for the trainwreck I knew was sure to come. Sure enough the next month came and went and she broke up with him and he was left moping around his house, looking like a complete dumbass, haha. Just the first serving of "just desserts" I'd get to see in the upcoming year for him. Link to post Share on other sites
YellowShark Posted July 26, 2010 Share Posted July 26, 2010 Actually no, he did not know her and was not seeing her before this. His time was accounted for between work and home up until the breakup, no other phone calls on his cell. So it kind of means he has issues...LMAO! Yes it should be quite the train wreck. Well if this is true, then she is his rebound. So I expect this "marriage" not to last. (In fact it might not even take place.) I think he will eventually dump her, or go behind her back when he decides to come running back to you. Either way - IMHO - it shall end badly. The two things you need to do is: 1) Steer clear of this guy and get over him. 2) PROTECT your business which sadly you share with him. Link to post Share on other sites
Thorgs Posted July 26, 2010 Share Posted July 26, 2010 Would it be possible that he's just saying this do make you jealous/hurt you? There's no one in their right mind that would get married a month after they met, unless they were Mormon of course I can say that because I used to be one! Link to post Share on other sites
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