You'reasian Posted July 26, 2010 Share Posted July 26, 2010 Actually no, he did not know her and was not seeing her before this. His time was accounted for between work and home up until the breakup, no other phone calls on his cell. So it kind of means he has issues...LMAO! Yes it should be quite the train wreck. Have you spoken to him about this? Link to post Share on other sites
Author PixieStix Posted July 26, 2010 Author Share Posted July 26, 2010 Well if this is true, then she is his rebound. So I expect this "marriage" not to last. (In fact it might not even take place.) I think he will eventually dump her, or go behind her back when he decides to come running back to you. Either way - IMHO - it shall end badly. The two things you need to do is: 1) Steer clear of this guy and get over him. 2) PROTECT your business which sadly you share with him. No, I don't think he is rebounding. He is truly in love with her or has told everyone he is and seems to be happy. Anyway, I wish there was a way to protect the business. I am looking into that currently. Link to post Share on other sites
Author PixieStix Posted July 26, 2010 Author Share Posted July 26, 2010 Have you spoken to him about this? Yes and there was nothing going on according to him, but who knows. I am not wasting my time worrying about it any longer. He is thinking with his little head and not his big one. There were some lies told to me over the course of time and I am sure he is lying to her as well. Leopards don't change their spots... Link to post Share on other sites
Thorgs Posted July 26, 2010 Share Posted July 26, 2010 No, I don't think he is rebounding. He is truly in love with her or has told everyone he is and seems to be happy. Anyway, I wish there was a way to protect the business. I am looking into that currently. What type of business? Maybe she just gives really really good b....back massages and that's how he fell for her so fast?? I'm sorry though, it must be a heart wrenching thing to deal with Link to post Share on other sites
Author PixieStix Posted July 26, 2010 Author Share Posted July 26, 2010 Would it be possible that he's just saying this do make you jealous/hurt you? There's no one in their right mind that would get married a month after they met, unless they were Mormon of course I can say that because I used to be one! No, it is not a jealousy thing. It was not even told directly to me, I heard inadvertently and he confirmed it the other day. Link to post Share on other sites
A Hot Mess Posted July 26, 2010 Share Posted July 26, 2010 The only thing that would make this story better, is if the wife-to-be turned out to be a tranny. Link to post Share on other sites
Author PixieStix Posted July 27, 2010 Author Share Posted July 27, 2010 The only thing that would make this story better, is if the wife-to-be turned out to be a tranny. She has no idea the things he is keeping from her, and they are BIG, HUGE things that she should really know but I am not telling. Link to post Share on other sites
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