Is it dodge for woman to keep friendship/contact with x boyfriends.

[Hamish]

Why do some woman feel the need to keep in contact with as many x boyfriends as possible? Is it dodge or normal? wouldn’t she still hold some feelings towards them making it little dangerous or can woman erase these feelings once moved on to next guy?

 

My girlfriend at the time had daddy issues because her dad left the family for younger partner when she was in her early teens so she craved for male attention during her twenties. Now 33 and doesn’t party or go night clubbing any more, can woman with daddy issues out grow the male attention thing or is that why she still prefers male company and contact with x boyfriends but to insecure for her current partner to do the same?

 

I knew her last x still wanted her and at least one of her male friends had texted her "I want to be with you etc, etc". Maybe she was innocent but subconsciously still craves the male attention putting out those "I available" signals to them or is it just guys being guys trying their luck?

[Untouchable_Fire]

My girlfriend at the time had daddy issues because her dad left the family for younger partner when she was in her early teens so she craved for male attention during her twenties. Now 33 and doesn’t party or go night clubbing any more, can woman with daddy issues out grow the male attention thing or is that why she still prefers male company and contact with x boyfriends but to insecure for her current partner to do the same?

 

Ok... so you let her stay in contact with her ex's, but your not allowed to talk with yours?

 

Look, tell her to cut contact and prove it, or allow you contact with yours. If she can't handle that then you should strongly consider dumping her.

 

Some never outgrow their childhood issues.

[phineas]

It's all about boundaries.

It's a given they want to sleep with her.

 

That's fine as long as she acknowledges that & tells them it isn't going to happen & they need to stop because she is in a relationship.

 

some may want more than just sex so they will weasel their way into your relationship & be her shoulder to cry on.

 

If she allows them to keep acting inappropriately like that then she is craving the attention & I personally would just break up with someone like that.

 

because in my experience it will end badly anyways.