I'm in love

[Daniel]

I'm 17 a junior in high school and have been in love since I was 15 in my freshman year. I met her in my science class in my freshman year. I was lab partners with one of her many boyfriends and her lab station was right next to ours and I got to know her kind of well throughout the year. I had never talked to her anywhere else except that science class. I didn't know any of her friends and she didn't know any of my friends. She had a couple of boyfriends throughout that year but I never asked her out or anything. My freshmen year came and went. You see in our school district the sophomores are split up in to 2 schools and in my sophomore year I was split from her. I went through that whole year without seeing her once. Thinking about her all the time. Come summer going into my junior year I not told anyone about the most beautiful girl I've ever seen. This past summer I told my closest friend about how I felt about her. And now we have a new school that has freshman through seniors. And after a year without seeing her I began seeing her in the hallways but I have no classes with her this year. About at the end of September I reintroduced myself to her in the hallways, I asked her if she remembered me she said she did. So after that I'd say hi to her whenever I'd see her and have brief conversations with her sometimes too. So this went on through out October and into this month. And ever since September it was my goal to keep saying hi and have conversations with her until I had the courage to go up to her and ask her out to the movies. Last Friday something clicked in me and at the end of the day outside where all the buses are parked I found her walking by herself and without thinking I just asked her. She said she couldn't last weekend but she said she would go next weekend (this weekend). It was the best feeling in my life for her to say that she would go with me. I couldn't stop thinking about the date the whole weekend wondering how it would turn out. So on this past Monday I went to her locker in the morning and asked her if we were still on for this weekend and she said she didn't know because she might have to work. So on Tuesday I was going to ask her that if she couldn't go this weekend that maybe she could go today (Wednesday) or Friday since there's no school. So between periods early in the school day I past by one of her boyfriends and he said to me that I was harassing her. I freaked out, trying to think if I had said something wrong to her. So I didn't see her until the end of the day. I asked her that if she didn't want to go to the movies with me she could just tell me. Then she said as if I never even asked her out "Why are you telling me this." I said "Well [wont name) told me that I was harassing you." Then she just started laughing. I don't know if it was at me or what. Then when I tried to talk to her all of her girl and boy friends who I dont even know started coming up to her talking to her. I waited a few minutes waiting for when I could keep talking to her about this harassing crap and I never got the chance. I just walked away out of the school and onto my bus to go home for this WONDERFUL thanksgiving holiday.

 

What should I do? I feel so humiliated. I get so nervous and scared whenever I talk to her. She's so beautiful. I have no connections to her. I'm not in any of her classes, I don't know any of her friends. I have friends but I don't want them to help me. I want to get her myself. I was so close too. Should I say something to her when I get back to school or should I just forget about her and move on? I'm not attracted to any other girl but her, though. I'm so f***en confused. Please help.

 

If you read this far, thank you for reading my problem.

[Cookie]

Stop chasing her around and ignore her.

 

It seems like she feels that you are pressuring her too much. So, my advice is that chill out and look for another person.

 

She's apparently not interested in you and I know this sounds harsh, but what else can you do? It's better to walk away with intergrity than to turn her off by trying to talk to her more.

I'm 17 a junior in high school and have been in love since I was 15 in my freshman year. I met her in my science class in my freshman year. I was lab partners with one of her many boyfriends and her lab station was right next to ours and I got to know her kind of well throughout the year. I had never talked to her anywhere else except that science class. I didn't know any of her friends and she didn't know any of my friends. She had a couple of boyfriends throughout that year but I never asked her out or anything. My freshmen year came and went. You see in our school district the sophomores are split up in to 2 schools and in my sophomore year I was split from her. I went through that whole year without seeing her once. Thinking about her all the time. Come summer going into my junior year I not told anyone about the most beautiful girl I've ever seen. This past summer I told my closest friend about how I felt about her. And now we have a new school that has freshman through seniors. And after a year without seeing her I began seeing her in the hallways but I have no classes with her this year. About at the end of September I reintroduced myself to her in the hallways, I asked her if she remembered me she said she did. So after that I'd say hi to her whenever I'd see her and have brief conversations with her sometimes too. So this went on through out October and into this month. And ever since September it was my goal to keep saying hi and have conversations with her until I had the courage to go up to her and ask her out to the movies. Last Friday something clicked in me and at the end of the day outside where all the buses are parked I found her walking by herself and without thinking I just asked her. She said she couldn't last weekend but she said she would go next weekend (this weekend). It was the best feeling in my life for her to say that she would go with me. I couldn't stop thinking about the date the whole weekend wondering how it would turn out. So on this past Monday I went to her locker in the morning and asked her if we were still on for this weekend and she said she didn't know because she might have to work. So on Tuesday I was going to ask her that if she couldn't go this weekend that maybe she could go today (Wednesday) or Friday since there's no school. So between periods early in the school day I past by one of her boyfriends and he said to me that I was harassing her. I freaked out, trying to think if I had said something wrong to her. So I didn't see her until the end of the day. I asked her that if she didn't want to go to the movies with me she could just tell me. Then she said as if I never even asked her out "Why are you telling me this." I said "Well [wont name) told me that I was harassing you." Then she just started laughing. I don't know if it was at me or what. Then when I tried to talk to her all of her girl and boy friends who I dont even know started coming up to her talking to her. I waited a few minutes waiting for when I could keep talking to her about this harassing crap and I never got the chance. I just walked away out of the school and onto my bus to go home for this WONDERFUL thanksgiving holiday.

 

What should I do? I feel so humiliated. I get so nervous and scared whenever I talk to her. She's so beautiful. I have no connections to her. I'm not in any of her classes, I don't know any of her friends. I have friends but I don't want them to help me. I want to get her myself. I was so close too. Should I say something to her when I get back to school or should I just forget about her and move on? I'm not attracted to any other girl but her, though. I'm so f***en confused. Please help. If you read this far, thank you for reading my problem.

[Daniel]

It's going to be hard to forget about her because there's little things like songs and movies that remind me of her but I'll try my best. I just I hope I will feel the same way I felt with her with another girl. It's the best feeling in the world.

[Michael]

Sorry Daniel, but you're not off the hook yet. You're just starting the fascinating world of courtship. Currently I'm also chasing the woman of my dreams. Go back to her and demonstrate that you're no loser. YOU'RE NOT BEAT UNTIL YOU QUIT!

 

Best regards,

 

Michael

I'm 17 a junior in high school and have been in love since I was 15 in my freshman year. I met her in my science class in my freshman year. I was lab partners with one of her many boyfriends and her lab station was right next to ours and I got to know her kind of well throughout the year. I had never talked to her anywhere else except that science class. I didn't know any of her friends and she didn't know any of my friends. She had a couple of boyfriends throughout that year but I never asked her out or anything. My freshmen year came and went. You see in our school district the sophomores are split up in to 2 schools and in my sophomore year I was split from her. I went through that whole year without seeing her once. Thinking about her all the time. Come summer going into my junior year I not told anyone about the most beautiful girl I've ever seen. This past summer I told my closest friend about how I felt about her. And now we have a new school that has freshman through seniors. And after a year without seeing her I began seeing her in the hallways but I have no classes with her this year. About at the end of September I reintroduced myself to her in the hallways, I asked her if she remembered me she said she did. So after that I'd say hi to her whenever I'd see her and have brief conversations with her sometimes too. So this went on through out October and into this month. And ever since September it was my goal to keep saying hi and have conversations with her until I had the courage to go up to her and ask her out to the movies. Last Friday something clicked in me and at the end of the day outside where all the buses are parked I found her walking by herself and without thinking I just asked her. She said she couldn't last weekend but she said she would go next weekend (this weekend). It was the best feeling in my life for her to say that she would go with me. I couldn't stop thinking about the date the whole weekend wondering how it would turn out. So on this past Monday I went to her locker in the morning and asked her if we were still on for this weekend and she said she didn't know because she might have to work. So on Tuesday I was going to ask her that if she couldn't go this weekend that maybe she could go today (Wednesday) or Friday since there's no school. So between periods early in the school day I past by one of her boyfriends and he said to me that I was harassing her. I freaked out, trying to think if I had said something wrong to her. So I didn't see her until the end of the day. I asked her that if she didn't want to go to the movies with me she could just tell me. Then she said as if I never even asked her out "Why are you telling me this." I said "Well [wont name) told me that I was harassing you." Then she just started laughing. I don't know if it was at me or what. Then when I tried to talk to her all of her girl and boy friends who I dont even know started coming up to her talking to her. I waited a few minutes waiting for when I could keep talking to her about this harassing crap and I never got the chance. I just walked away out of the school and onto my bus to go home for this WONDERFUL thanksgiving holiday.

 

What should I do? I feel so humiliated. I get so nervous and scared whenever I talk to her. She's so beautiful. I have no connections to her. I'm not in any of her classes, I don't know any of her friends. I have friends but I don't want them to help me. I want to get her myself. I was so close too. Should I say something to her when I get back to school or should I just forget about her and move on? I'm not attracted to any other girl but her, though. I'm so f***en confused. Please help. If you read this far, thank you for reading my problem.

[Daniel]

I don't know. After all the embarrassment that happened on Tuesday in front of her, I would'nt know what to say to her on Monday. Unless she comes to me and apologize's or something but I have a better chance of winning the lotto than that happening. Thanks anyway for the advice.