USMCHokie Posted July 27, 2010 Share Posted July 27, 2010 don't be such a wanker Calm down, bro... Link to post Share on other sites
Lishy Posted July 27, 2010 Share Posted July 27, 2010 (edited) Calm down, bb11. You can't choose to post to everyone about how little of a deal this is to you, then start threatening people when they respond by having a bit of a laugh at your dirty laundry. At least be man enough to take what you get. It's how it works, here. So is that what LS is about? Having a laugh at other members' dirty laundry? From what I have seen here BB decided to contact his ex ... Errrr who has not thought about that before? Stand up and be counted if you have never had a moment of weakness!! I bet some of you have even contacted an ex but didnt have the balls to admit it here! Even Caliguy (who is the grand master of NO CONTACT) had a moment of weakness! You all make me laugh ... I will be there waiting to laugh at you all when you next do something that maybe you shouldnt have done .... Oh wait, no I wont because that would just be CRUEL!!! It is so not cool of you all, BB is the nicest, sweetest and kindest man I have ever got to know on here. He talks from his heart and will always have time to listen and advise even though he is bogged down day after day with his schooling You should all be ashamed of the fact that you have come here to belittle a fellow member and I hope it made your sorry lives feel a tad better for a short time! U have one word for every one of you who laughed and mocked ... DISGRACE! Edited July 27, 2010 by Lishy Link to post Share on other sites
mickleb Posted July 27, 2010 Share Posted July 27, 2010 What a load of crap! bb ended almost all of his posts on this thread for the first two pages with 'heh' or 'LOL', so, if anyone was taking the p*ss out of him, it was himself. After that, he got a bit moody. He's the one protesting that none of this is a big deal but yet, he feels he can threaten people who agree this is non-thread. Which it is. It's another excuse for feeling a bit needy and wanting some attention. Nothing to say, except 'look at me!' Sounds as if you haven't even read the thread, Lishy. (Save yourself some effort and don't bother, would be my advice and, perhaps, lay off the dramatics a tad??) Link to post Share on other sites
Author bananaboat11 Posted July 27, 2010 Author Share Posted July 27, 2010 What a load of crap! bb ended almost all of his posts on this thread for the first two pages with 'heh' or 'LOL', so, if anyone was taking the p*ss out of him, it was himself. After that, he got a bit moody. He's the one protesting that none of this is a big deal but yet, he feels he can threaten people who agree this is non-thread. Which it is. It's another excuse for feeling a bit needy and wanting some attention. Nothing to say, except 'look at me!' Sounds as if you haven't even read the thread, Lishy. (Save yourself some effort and don't bother, would be my advice and, perhaps, lay off the dramatics a tad??) This thread was a moment of weakness expression for me. I acted on it. Your joshing is unnecessary. I'm not being hypocritical. I'm not whining that I miss her. I has a moment ... I acted on it without hesitation or regret and I found it humorous. Your pseudo-analysis and pseudo-cynicism irritates me, however. Yeah, maybe it did strike a nerve... a sensitive spot. I don't dish this **** out to anyone... unless there is a valid reasoning to do so. If I dished it out on a day to day basis... that's one thing, but I don't. I missed Nicole. I cared about Nicole. I caught the BREAK NC bug... I did. I laugh at it now. We're human. We're meant to be irrational at times. Don't come up to me acting all big (McGrupp) telling me to blow coke off a stripper's ass. That's not me. That's not my lifestyle. Just because I text an ex... you all feel you have to deny your own urges subconsciously.. your efforts to counter such by berating my action were successful. Congratulations. Whether this is the internet or real life... words are not ALWAYS meaningless. They can hurt. Link to post Share on other sites
McGrupp Posted July 27, 2010 Share Posted July 27, 2010 just saying the when i was doing this **** right after my breakup of 3.5 years and it freaking fresh in my memory i was getting a lot of , hey this pitty party has to go! and yet no one says this to this guy cause he PM's you at night. im about to report him for spamming the board over the last 8 months. there are people here that are legit fresh, off real breakups (not 4.5 months but ****ING YEARS, HOUSES!! KIDS!!) that dont get half the press or advice , because they dont have as many LS friends to give them 3 pages of sympathy. hey BB you ever have to split up furniture? or ****ing change your mailing address? i mean really. did u ever return an engagement ring? and this is not a competition, but gimme a ****ing break. **** it, ill come into everyone of your threads and do this ****. eventually you have to look in the mirror and say this bitch aint ****. your posts are so funny because you sir DONT LOVE YOURSELF. every post is like, here's why im great and list stuff off, like PHD or great and bed and thats really cool to a bunch of anonymous heartbroken people, but guess what, nobody cares about that ****! but hey man, just keepin it real. Link to post Share on other sites
Lishy Posted July 27, 2010 Share Posted July 27, 2010 What a load of crap! bb ended almost all of his posts on this thread for the first two pages with 'heh' or 'LOL', so, if anyone was taking the p*ss out of him, it was himself. After that, he got a bit moody. He's the one protesting that none of this is a big deal but yet, he feels he can threaten people who agree this is non-thread. Which it is. It's another excuse for feeling a bit needy and wanting some attention. Nothing to say, except 'look at me!' Sounds as if you haven't even read the thread, Lishy. (Save yourself some effort and don't bother, would be my advice and, perhaps, lay off the dramatics a tad??) Yes, Mick I have read the thread, every single post, and as a person who knows BB well I will say that some of you (including you) have been a bunch of morons! He has been called weak, implied he was stupid, told he had no friends, Denverguy even took his time to spend a whole post putting him down and trying to make him look stupid and the best advice he was given was to go blow coke off a strippers ass and go get his ass kicked!! WTH! You should all refrain from coming to this site if all you can offer are smug put downs ... Has it helped him? Have you made him feel any better? Nope, but you have all probably helped yourself feel good for a millisecond. You lives must be very sad Mick you even said that he should expect this resonse here ... that is just laughable! Oh and if you think this is dramatic then you obviously do not know the meaning of the word! Link to post Share on other sites
McGrupp Posted July 27, 2010 Share Posted July 27, 2010 i wasnt saying that stuff in seriousness, it was obviously in jest. The point was, go out and ****ing live your life and stop feeling sorry for yourself. Link to post Share on other sites
Lishy Posted July 27, 2010 Share Posted July 27, 2010 just saying the when i was doing this **** right after my breakup of 3.5 years and it freaking fresh in my memory i was getting a lot of , hey this pitty party has to go! and yet no one says this to this guy cause he PM's you at night. im about to report him for spamming the board over the last 8 months. there are people here that are legit fresh, off real breakups (not 4.5 months but ****ING YEARS, HOUSES!! KIDS!!) that dont get half the press or advice , because they dont have as many LS friends to give them 3 pages of sympathy. hey BB you ever have to split up furniture? or ****ing change your mailing address? i mean really. did u ever return an engagement ring? and this is not a competition, but gimme a ****ing break. **** it, ill come into everyone of your threads and do this ****. eventually you have to look in the mirror and say this bitch aint ****. your posts are so funny because you sir DONT LOVE YOURSELF. every post is like, here's why im great and list stuff off, like PHD or great and bed and thats really cool to a bunch of anonymous heartbroken people, but guess what, nobody cares about that ****! but hey man, just keepin it real. See McGrupp ... You think because in your eyes BB has not gone through anything bad or felt emotion because he has not split furniture or given back an engagement ring that it is ok to ridicule him? What do we all come here for? We can all tell a worse story if we like ... Have YOU ever left someone and been scared for your life? Had an ex try to kill themself over you? had a kid that you have had to take to therapy due to a break up? Well I have and that may be worse that BB's situation but I would not come here and ridicule him! Feelings are feelings and we all feel our own pain! Stop being such a knob and if you have nothing good so say or no contructive advice to give then jog on to the next thread! Pffffffff Link to post Share on other sites
Author bananaboat11 Posted July 27, 2010 Author Share Posted July 27, 2010 i wasnt saying that stuff in seriousness, it was obviously in jest. The point was, go out and ****ing live your life and stop feeling sorry for yourself. Unfortunately that's not an option for me.. not until my PhD is ****ing done. You fail to understand how miserable my social life is right now b/c all I do is eat, sleep, train, lift... I have NEVER put anyone down on this site before. I've tried to be inspiring to people among ALL my weaknesses and insecurities and my own pain 4-8 months ago. Recently.. I've been trying to learn who I am since that awful breakup 8 months ago. 4.5 months... **** my life. I fell hard for that girl. I was in a 14 month relationship.. (longest ever)... yeah, we broke up... but it didn't hurt as much. Her and me are still friends. Getting burned... entirely different story from me. I didn't grow up in the hood. but fine. i've had it. I'm done being. I've messaged the forum admin making a request to permanently delete my account from LS. I hope he does. And this - I don't seek pity for. I am on other forums... I don't need this bull****. And yeah... I have lived. I played DI-AA football.. I was a bouncer in a bar for 2 years... I'm a frat guy... now... now I'm being responsible so that one day I don't live paycheck to paycheck. I entered grad school single (unwed)... and it'll probably stay this way until I can meet a woman who is in the same situation and understands & shares the time constraints. I was not looking for pity in this thread. I was not seeking advice. I was not asking for anything. I vented. Yeah... maybe subconsciously I sought attention... I'll admit that. But I failed. I broke NC (whether it went through or not) but I don't ****ing care. Good luck with blowin' coke off stripper's asses and contracting STI's galore. I'm good. Don't need that BS. Link to post Share on other sites
D-Lish Posted July 28, 2010 Share Posted July 28, 2010 So, knowing she didn't get your text- what is your next move? Will you seek her out, or was it just a moment of weakness you now feel has passed BB? Link to post Share on other sites
USMCHokie Posted July 28, 2010 Share Posted July 28, 2010 I've messaged the forum admin making a request to permanently delete my account from LS. I hope he does. And this - I don't seek pity for. I am on other forums... I don't need this bull****. Oh come on buddy, don't get all melodramatic on us. I know you have thicker skin and this... Link to post Share on other sites
txsilkysmoothe Posted July 28, 2010 Share Posted July 28, 2010 BB, Don't let the negative posts affect you. Do you know why some people have reacted so strongly? Because your actions scare them. They are afraid they might also break NC. "It happened to BB, it could happen to me." Then they have to rationalize why it won't happen to them, "No, I'm stronger than BB. I better let him know it, too." We have all made fools of ourselves or we wouldn't be here. Many of us aren't willing or strong enough to share our screw-ups. You were! Our mistakes make us smarter, stronger, better human beings. Own it, let it go, and move on. Link to post Share on other sites
DenverBachelor Posted July 28, 2010 Share Posted July 28, 2010 BB, Don't let the negative posts affect you. Do you know why some people have reacted so strongly? Because your actions scare them. They don't scare me one bit. I'm on top of the world and happier than I've ever been -- even at our best when my ex and I were together. The only reason I see anyone breaking NC after six months in it is because their life has hit a low and they're looking for some excitement whether it be from positive or negative drama. We all love a little drama once in a while, but ex drama is not fun. I'm willing to bet BB11 has just been reflecting after his recent 19 breakups after his ex. He's rebounding all over the court without really working on any of his internal issues. BB11 -- good luck. We all go through slumps. You're not going to be able to screw your way out of this one. You think every woman that you have sex with will distance yourself from her, but you're really just distancing yourself from who you want to be. Link to post Share on other sites
GrayClouds Posted July 28, 2010 Share Posted July 28, 2010 (edited) IMHO: USMCHokie - Your a good friend, and it is good you stopped by you may be the only one to be able to hold him back. D-lish - Nice job trying to bring us back from armageddon. lishy - I am quite sure you have some really good points but I'm too distracted by the creepy avatar of some chic about to suck face with a wall in a public bathroom stall. McGrupp - This is what happen when your away for so long, we forget your sense of wit and humor. Do be such a stranger. mickleb - Your right everyone here long enough gets a combination of tough love mixed with some affectionate ribbing. If we can not laugh at our crazy then we are insane. Boat - If I didn't know better I would start to think you been juicing, your healing may be a slow boat but I know you will get there. txsilkysmoothe - For you... I must disagree. A mistake is action having the wrong outcome despite one's best efforts, a choice is selecting an action regardless to outcome. BB did not make a mistake he made a choice. Secondly mistakes do not make us strong, how we decide to handle ourselves after we make them, can. I do suspect BB appreciated the sentiment. Everyone Else - Welcome to the LS family, we like any other family... a perfect combination of fun and dysfunction Edited July 28, 2010 by GrayClouds Link to post Share on other sites
txsilkysmoothe Posted July 28, 2010 Share Posted July 28, 2010 (edited) They don't scare me one bit. Then you aren't the "some" to which I was referring. Why kick a guy when he is down? A message can be communicated positively or negatively. Why choose a negative approach when the objective is to "assist" and "support" one in need? Unless assistance and support are not one's goal - and if not, why not? Some of these posts go way beyond "tough love." They are just ugly and reflect poorly on the poster rather than succeeding in tainting BB11's image. Grayclouds - your "IMHO" lacks the "humble." Edited July 28, 2010 by txsilkysmoothe Link to post Share on other sites
USMCHokie Posted July 28, 2010 Share Posted July 28, 2010 BB had his wish granted and had himself 'removed' from the LS community...but he wanted me to let you know he appreciates the kind words from you all (GC, txsilky, D-Lish, Lishy, & Co.). He'll be fine...he just needs a swift kick in the arse from time to time... And GC, in response to your last post, he says not until September... Link to post Share on other sites
DenverBachelor Posted July 28, 2010 Share Posted July 28, 2010 BB had his wish granted and had himself 'removed' from the LS community... I await Bananaboat12. Link to post Share on other sites
HeavenOrHell Posted July 28, 2010 Share Posted July 28, 2010 I'm sorry Rob's left LS Please could you pass on my on best wishes BB had his wish granted and had himself 'removed' from the LS community...but he wanted me to let you know he appreciates the kind words from you all (GC, txsilky, D-Lish, Lishy, & Co.). He'll be fine...he just needs a swift kick in the arse from time to time... And GC, in response to your last post, he says not until September... Link to post Share on other sites
smk Posted July 28, 2010 Share Posted July 28, 2010 Well I know that this is a little late but I thought I would lighten up the mood: "I'm just a chubby ninja. Able to move between skinny people. Tiptoeing elephant. No one can see me. And then I attack! With ice cream and jelly, with chocolate sprinkles on top. Mmmmm." - Sleeptalkinman Link to post Share on other sites
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