Lucky555 Posted July 27, 2010 Share Posted July 27, 2010 So this guy i used to be exclusive with that i talked about here before contacted me last week. I thought he would just get the message after I didn't initiate contact for a very long time. However, i didn't block him online or anything just because he would know immediately that i was avoiding him. we have some mutual friends and I wanted to leave this relationship quietly and peacefully. I basically didn't want drama. I also thought he lost interest since he wasn't really trying. I was usually online alot not at my computer but my friends message me here and there and when i get to them i do. its just a thing i do. So anyways he contacted me last week. I did respond and he basically told me he was going on vacation with his family ect. (AND what do i care?) hahaha. I think he contacted me to brag and get attention. Him telling me this just proved to me all the lies he told to me while we were seeing each other. It helps to know he is like this because its like i was right all along!! I used to feel like we couldn't really go out anywhere because he had his job that he couldn't go to far from as he was the person responsible for everything. He even told me he wished i could be more understanding! However, he is leaving many miles away for vacation to another state. He actually can leave his job and find someone to cover!! HAHA. So i was right he was a liar. I now have distanced myself enough..and its been pretty peaceful. Basically I didn't say anything nasty to the guy even though i want to tell him off. I just don't feel like its worth the drama. This guy is very manipulative towards me and others. I have blocked him now online as I have not had time. I just tell him lies as he has told me LIES! I tell him how much i had to do ect. Basically I have just used some reverse psych. on him. It works wondefully. Now i'm so ready to be happy with a sane handsome guy \ Link to post Share on other sites
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