94stang Posted February 11, 2004 Share Posted February 11, 2004 OK me and my ex broke up about 3/1/2 mouths ago, because i could not do it any more. the fights the hitting me with the car and the mental abuse. she tried to get me for abuse (i would never hit a girl) saying that i tried to hit her at a club after she slapped me in the face 3 times. now she is trying to get all of my friends in the sack and have them all turn on me. it fells like it never stops.now i have a new girl and i love her very much she tried that but it did not work. please help Link to post Share on other sites
Arabess Posted February 11, 2004 Share Posted February 11, 2004 Are you saying you have TWO WOMEN who say you are abusive.....but you aren't? Link to post Share on other sites
Author 94stang Posted February 11, 2004 Author Share Posted February 11, 2004 Are you saying you have TWO WOMEN who say you are abusive.....but you aren't? no Link to post Share on other sites
Vivid_29 Posted February 11, 2004 Share Posted February 11, 2004 Originally posted by 94stang .now i have a new girl and i love her very much she tried that but it did not work. She tried what? Accuse you of whacking her? Getting all your friends in the sack? Try to turn your friends against you? Damn, dude, you fall in love fast!!! ~V Link to post Share on other sites
Author 94stang Posted February 11, 2004 Author Share Posted February 11, 2004 Originally posted by 94stang .now i have a new girl and i love her very much she tried that but it did not work. now i have a new girl and i love her very much.my ex tried to break that up but it did not work. Link to post Share on other sites
FreeMe Posted February 11, 2004 Share Posted February 11, 2004 Maybe you need to get a restraining order against your ex. She sounds like a dangerous nut. Link to post Share on other sites
matrixgenius Posted February 13, 2004 Share Posted February 13, 2004 Dude, All I have to say is Buffalo - No place for a romantic ! All the women here, and I mean all ! are ho's or psycho Trust me. Even the one you have now, if you didn't meet her at church then run Trust me I know . It's cold here and they will get in bed with anyone Link to post Share on other sites
faux Posted February 14, 2004 Share Posted February 14, 2004 This reminds me of one of my exes. I feel for you. Do what I didn't do -- Gather evidence to prove she is a nutcase. First of all however, did she get a TRO (Temporary Restraining Order) on you for the accusations of abuse? And was that all settled? If a final order was not granted (if a temp was ordered) then she has very little credibility with the law now. If she accuses you of anything else do not talk to the police, even though you've nothing to hide. Just don't talk to them. Ever. I made the mistake of going in good will and getting deep into trouble in one situation. Words are easily misinterpreted. In the mean time if she does anything to you or contacts you save all of the information. Phone calls (dates/times/what was said), phone messages, notes, emails, anything. You'll need all of this to get a restraining order against her. You don't need any proof to get a TRO against her but in order to finalize it you'll need proof. If she isn't doing anything to harass or endanger you then just steer clear of her. Link to post Share on other sites
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