jmargel Posted March 1, 2004 Share Posted March 1, 2004 Aesmith, This relationship is now a full-blown power struggle. Every relationship that has turned into this has failed. You are worried about earning back HIS trust? He's the one that cheated on you and used an excuse on you! You were upfront with him in the beginning and he didn't want to believe things. He is still pissed that this has happened, and figures it'll make him feel better by cheating on you & now putting your own self-worth at risk by having you as his puppet. If he truly wants this to work out you both need to see a couple's councilor immediately. That's the only way to save this. He finally got the tables turned and now feels power over you. Take a step back and see whats going on. A REAL relationship is 50/50 no matter what has happened in the past. To continue forward in a relationship you need to deal with the past, move on & forgive. You two aren't moving on, when these games still continue to be played. If he doesn't want to goto couple's counciling then you need to move on with your life. Yes we know you may love him, but this isn't healthy for you. Link to post Share on other sites
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