Smoove Posted February 12, 2004 Share Posted February 12, 2004 Right now i am angry and confused that my ex who dumped me is finding it so easy 2 get over me. Up 2 now i am just so depressed even after 5 months. I cannot move on i just dont know how 2. I mean my ex had a rough past as well and she has been depressed and got over it, but i feel i need 2 owe her and i just wish things could hav been betta. She told me that you dont have any reason 2 feel like this and stop feeling sorry for yourself. I was so angry was just so ignorant of my feelings. Man i just wanna smash her (im sorry) I also hav a problem with jealousy she has told me that she goes 2 a lot of parties and piks up. It hurts me when guys just dont respect her instead just want her as a sex object. Im killing inside. Its just gonna take me ages 2 get over this, im sorry if im just moping around 2 much. Link to post Share on other sites
carla Posted February 12, 2004 Share Posted February 12, 2004 Sorry for how your feeling, but I think you need to get over her. and before you move onto a new relationship you need to put a handle on the the jealously and anger thing. Maybe the jealously is what turned her away. When there is jealously ther is a lack of trust, when there is no trust your asking for a bad relationship. Link to post Share on other sites
Brokenheartitaly Posted February 12, 2004 Share Posted February 12, 2004 I'm sorry that you are having trouble getting over this.. I'm having trouble getting over it too.. Sometimes in these situations though, it seems that one side is getting over the thing so easy, but people have different ways of trying to get over things... There are the people who you can openly see are having problems getting over and there are the other ones who try to put on a brave face so that you think they are getting over it... Whenever there is a serious relationship between two people, then both sides are hurting really badly when the thing breaks up... Believe me, I'm going through it too and it seems to me that my ex is getting past easily too, especially by the way he is acting... But deep inside these people they are also hurting really badly... Sometimes they tell you things or do things which really make you want to hate them... But don't hate them because that's what they really want, because they feel so badly about what they have done to you... The same is happening to me at the moment... I am emotionally devastated about what has happened in my relationship and it would seem - on the outside - that he is over it - at least he tells me this... I just need to look at my ex - who is seeing another person now... I watch him after he has made a telephone call to this other person... His face is completely normal as he makes this telephone call... He speaks with a voice which would make you think he is so happy but when the telephone call is finished, the face is completely normal - not satisfied... He tells me he is so happy now - but I don't see any happiness on his face whatsoever.. You know when you receive a text message on your cell phone and it is from the person who you are having a "Happy" relationship with... When I receive a message like this, my face lights up... Because I am happy to receive that message from the person I care so much about now... My ex's face doesn't change... Either he replies or he throws the telephone back to the place which he took it from... So don't let your ex fool you.... They are hurting as much as you are and just trying to get over it in another way. Link to post Share on other sites
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