sister is driving me nuts

[nicolas465]

Hi,

I have a huge problem here, i'm currently living along w/my sister while attending univ, she never cooks, i'm the one who always cooks and when i do she refuses to eat what i make because it's not store bought. She complains that the dishes are never washed, when i'm the one who's continousously picking up her dirty dishes and washing them she just makes more dirty and leaves them around.

 

Whenever She asks me to do something i usually do it, but i protest whenever it's something that she can do herself but doesn't feel like doing. Like tonite she didnt' feel like looking for her binder because she was busy so she made me do it, and when i didn't find it and told her she should stop spazzing at me, she said "well if my bf were here he'd do it" and i said " i'm not your bf" and she's like "well your my brother"

 

Without me or her bf she'd live in a crap hole, that fridge is never cleaned out, she doesn't take out the garbage, the only thing she does is pay for cable.

 

She always goes to her bf's house and does watever until 2 or 3 am and he always comes here right after till like 5am . My gf asked me if i could help her babysit her bro and sleep the night over but my sister tells me i'm not allowed to, and then she says taht she deosn't want my gf comming here.

 

like wat the heck is going on? she's being totaly unreasonable and she just screams and yells if u say anything about it

 

thanks for listening, any advice on how to deal with this?

 

thanks

nic

[Darkangelism]

You at the very least have an qual say in what goes on, tell her tough s*** and that you will have your gf over, i mean what is she gonna do about it?

[carla]

When it comes to cooking and cleaning, just make what you want and do just your dishes. If finances are fessable try to get into a dorm or find a room to rent with house privilegdes.