jk81 Posted February 12, 2004 Share Posted February 12, 2004 Two weeks ago a girl I work with and I began to talk a lot more than we use to, we talk at work a lot and then we talk a lot through the internet and have even gone out once and have other things planned in a few weeks. I’m not saying that it’s love, I’m not saying we’re dating at the time but maybe it’ll become more. By comments she makes and how she acts towards and around me seems as though she has interest in me and likes me. I think she’ an amazing woman, I mean she’s very sweet, very nice, she has an awesome sense of humor. We have a lot of interests and other things in common. When around her I feel comfortable in the sense that I’m not shy, as I am typically. My problem is this, my whole life I have been overweight and have had big man-boobs and big stomach. I use to weigh 300 pounds, I now weigh 235 but still I have an ugly stomach and still have nasty man-boobs. I’ve never been around her except wearing shirts that, of course, hides all that and hasn’t seen what my actual body looks like. I’m scared that should anything develop into more, she will be turned off by it and I’ll end up being hurt. I don’t want that. What advice do you have to offer to ease this? I mean it’s to the point that I’m scared of getting into a relationship for that reason only. My whole life I’ve never been in a serious relationship and tend to not do so because of that. Link to post Share on other sites
Darkangelism Posted February 12, 2004 Share Posted February 12, 2004 Well hopefully she can see ur inside not your outside. I understand, i have a physical disability which is noticeable, so i always hope girls see past that. Link to post Share on other sites
carla Posted February 12, 2004 Share Posted February 12, 2004 Good for you losing all that weight. If you take it slow and get to know each other and then it slowly developes into a loving relationship once you get to the point that you are going to make love she won't care if you have man boobs. She will be so into the tought of having become one with you and sharing that intimicy that she so longed for she won't even notice. In the mean time do some bench presses and upper body excercises to try to turn those man boobs into a man chest. Good Luck. Link to post Share on other sites
bellatina Posted February 26, 2004 Share Posted February 26, 2004 My husband has a phisicall disability and also lost a lot of weight. for me he is the best looking man in the world. Link to post Share on other sites
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