Cookie Posted November 26, 1998 Share Posted November 26, 1998 Why do guys flirt? I have been attracted to guys who always turn out to be jerks who just flirt! Why on earth do they do that? I always thought they flirted because they were interested in me, but it seems like that wasn't the case. Is there something wrong with me? Or is it my taste of men? Or are men just plain flirts? Link to post Share on other sites
Tams Posted November 27, 1998 Share Posted November 27, 1998 There is absolutely nothing wrong with you at all. ALL guys flirt. It is there way of breaking the ice, because really, they know no other way of approaching us woman. Thusly why a very large percentage of men use pick up lines. The imfamous "Hey do you have a quater...cause I told my mother I would call home as soon as I fell in love" or better yet "Can I call you Gillette? Cause your the best a man can get." We have heard em all, and are tired of each and every one of them. But yes flirting does happen, and guys do it almost as much as girls do. So hey it is pretty harmless, and two sided. But if the guy happens to just be shallow and flirt cause he has nothing what so ever to offer you then ya just say oh well and move on to the next one. Try not to worry about it too much, eventually the right guy will come along, and you just might meet him by his flirting Link to post Share on other sites
Clarence Posted November 28, 1998 Share Posted November 28, 1998 Hi I am a male an yes I do agree with tams to a point on why men flirts with women. But at the same time Men are mostly shallow and only think with one thing most of the time. But there is a few of us out there that don't. We do look for the buity within a person. I have not had much luck with realationships lately. I don't realy have much to offer them but love. And I found the net is not the place to go looking for love couse you will only be hurt more becouse here it is easy to talk to some one for a long period of time just to find out thay were playen. So no it's not you or men just sociaty now a days. So please hang in there the right one will come along one day. There is absolutely nothing wrong with you at all. ALL guys flirt. It is there way of breaking the ice, because really, they know no other way of approaching us woman. Thusly why a very large percentage of men use pick up lines. The imfamous "Hey do you have a quater...cause I told my mother I would call home as soon as I fell in love" or better yet "Can I call you Gillette? Cause your the best a man can get." We have heard em all, and are tired of each and every one of them. But yes flirting does happen, and guys do it almost as much as girls do. So hey it is pretty harmless, and two sided. But if the guy happens to just be shallow and flirt cause he has nothing what so ever to offer you then ya just say oh well and move on to the next one. Try not to worry about it too much, eventually the right guy will come along, and you just might meet him by his flirting Link to post Share on other sites
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