LosingBattle Posted August 10, 2010 Share Posted August 10, 2010 (edited) <Moderator note: Current 2015 discussion begins here> I'm rather small chested. I've been single for a while. And while my ex still begs me to take him back, and he always showed attraction to my body, well, a couple times he made insensitive jokes about my meager cups and I noticed how he lusted after busty actresses or porn stars. I even lost some weight while we were still together, and he commented about my breasts shrinking. I asked him what would happen if I ended up being flat chested. He said we would've had to see, because if he lost his attraction to me we would've had to split, or maybe he would've paid for my implants. I'd never get implants, by the way. Now that I'm single I've noticed how men favor women with large breasts a lot more. I have a good waist to hip ratio (it means my waist is significantly smaller than my hips). I usually wear tight clothes to emphasize this, and I get some attention. But nowhere as near as girls with perfect cleavage. I mean, many models are thin, like me, with small breasts, and they're beautiful, yes, but not hot. Yet glamour models, who're slim with big breasts are well, men can't stop drooling. I even met a guy recently. He says I'd caught his attention from some time ago. However, he had this perception of me, as sort of an innocent, asexual, even religious girl. I'm none of that. Not innocent, very sexual and not religious at all. I asked him what was it. He said he didn't know, it was just the way I look, maybe the way I dress. But I don't wear conservative clothes. Once we talked about sex, he said his perception of me took a 180° turn. No busty gal ever deals with that. And I mean, when I want guys to notice me, I don't want them to think that I'm asexual, or that I'm too innocent or a prude. I mean, I wear make up, tight clothes, etc. Yet I project that image. I wonder why, if I'm not bad looking, I get less attention simply because of tissue that I have no control over. Weird, huh? Especially since I never do that to guys. I'm not too shallow when it comes to dating, to the point even other guys have told me to refine my taste. I don't want to be simply the cute girl. I want to be more than that. I wonder if my small bust is just 'cute' rather than hot, and if I'll ever be enough for one man. I don't want love anyway for a long time... so right now, whatever I have with a guy, I want it to be casual, so I really don't care about getting a guy who "loves me for me". I want to have fun... Edited October 19, 2015 by a LoveShack.org Moderator Link to post Share on other sites
USMCHokie Posted August 10, 2010 Share Posted August 10, 2010 I actually like them smaller. To be perfectly honest, bigger breasts are not particularly attractive to me...but to each their own. If your ex had such an issue with your breast size, then you're better off without him. Small breasts can definitely be "hot" (if that's what you're asking...) especially when you've got everything else. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
somedude81 Posted August 10, 2010 Share Posted August 10, 2010 Being perfectly honest, I am drawn to women with larger breasts. It is not something I have any explanation for or control over. In my understanding, the attraction to large breasts is primarily a western thing. Other cultures have different views of what the perfect female looks like. Since you are smaller busted you have a slight disadvantage. No need to worry because it's easily compensated for with the rest of your appearance. Just make sure to have sexy hair and proper make up. Try to get a toned body. A great ass and nice legs contribute a lot to a woman's appearance. Link to post Share on other sites
bobdole Posted August 10, 2010 Share Posted August 10, 2010 I like em big and small. Both have advantages and attractive attributes. Love some perky nipples though. Link to post Share on other sites
alexlakeman Posted August 10, 2010 Share Posted August 10, 2010 I like nice sized breasts that fill a nice tight top (ie a BEBE shirt) nicely, or allow a blouse with nice cleavage cut to fill in nicely.. Boob job, finance it and your done... women are picky about the size of a man's c.ock, well, we are picky about the size of their breasts, weather the guy likes em small, medium , or large... good luck Link to post Share on other sites
Raderick Posted August 10, 2010 Share Posted August 10, 2010 I don't really mind size of the boobs, as long as they are real. Link to post Share on other sites
Katie29 Posted August 10, 2010 Share Posted August 10, 2010 I like nice sized breasts that fill a nice tight top (ie a BEBE shirt) nicely, or allow a blouse with nice cleavage cut to fill in nicely.. Boob job, finance it and your done... women are picky about the size of a man's c.ock, well, we are picky about the size of their breasts, weather the guy likes em small, medium , or large... good luck Boob job? That may not be necessary.... Some guys don't mind small ones.. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
kalikula Posted August 10, 2010 Share Posted August 10, 2010 In my experience (having big breasts) I definitely don't get as much attention as my hot, skinny ex roommates! (One was an A cup and the other a B I think). I mean, you have to dress a little sexier maybe, show a little cleavage or wear a tube top, but you still come off looking sexy but not slutty. They always got way more attention than me... They are skinnier I guess (One was about 5'6, 112 and the other was 5'3, 110-- but I'm 5'1 115 or so with 34Ds so I'm not like fat either). Although lately I will admit that lately I've been getting guys that just want to hook up and nothing else, but I don't know if that's because of my boobs, or just because a lot of guys are like that and coincidentally I've been meeting them. Link to post Share on other sites
Mike B. Posted August 10, 2010 Share Posted August 10, 2010 I don't really mind size of the boobs, as long as they are real. What he said. I used to be a big breast guy but over the years, I have grown to like smaller breasts as well. Actually, it's all about how sexy they look no matter the size, IMO. Link to post Share on other sites
somedude81 Posted August 10, 2010 Share Posted August 10, 2010 Boob job, finance it and your done... Who says a woman has to pay for her implants? http://myfreeimplants.com/index.asp Link to post Share on other sites
alexlakeman Posted August 10, 2010 Share Posted August 10, 2010 I don't really mind size of the boobs, as long as they are real. If you feel or look at ones done with saline they are definitely real looking and feeling.. silicone are the less expensive that feel a tad different... no complaint on either job, though, lol... Just imagine if it was as easy for us guys.... go in for surgery, ok doc, add 2 inches, 1/2 more girth, some ridges, lol... nice c.ock at the end, lol.. didn't mean it was a pos c.ock at d beginning, just fine tuning it, lol.. For women its just , "well do I go with 400 cc's or 500?"... Link to post Share on other sites
meerkat stew Posted August 10, 2010 Share Posted August 10, 2010 Personally, I'm much more into the shape and texture than size. It's real tough to find large, real breasts that have the qualities I like, much easier to find small ones. Incidentally, I won't date another woman with fake ones, and feel there are lots of men out there like me. Just tossing that out. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author LosingBattle Posted August 10, 2010 Author Share Posted August 10, 2010 I like nice sized breasts that fill a nice tight top (ie a BEBE shirt) nicely, or allow a blouse with nice cleavage cut to fill in nicely.. Boob job, finance it and your done... women are picky about the size of a man's c.ock, well, we are picky about the size of their breasts, weather the guy likes em small, medium , or large... good luck Speak for yourself. If you try to justify your preferences blaming women for other things, well, that shows your ignorance. For most decent women I know, penis size is low in the preference list. Also there is a thing as too big, you know. In my experience, average is best. Link to post Share on other sites
alexlakeman Posted August 10, 2010 Share Posted August 10, 2010 Speak for yourself. If you try to justify your preferences blaming women for other things, well, that shows your ignorance. For most decent women I know, penis size is low in the preference list. Also there is a thing as too big, you know. In my experience, average is best. Take a chill pill, you asked for opinions.. there was NO disrespect in my posts... lol... ignorance? LOL, ok.., atleast Im not the one with the breast issues... EDITED... Didn't want to give you such a D.ck answer... just trying to give you an opinion and you must have misread the intention.. RR>. Link to post Share on other sites
Author LosingBattle Posted August 10, 2010 Author Share Posted August 10, 2010 No, but you're just like "well women like big c.ocks" Not all women. We're not driven by that. I don't judge men by that. Plus you can hardly see the penis in say, a bar. By the time you see the penis, well, you're probably about to get it on anyway. Link to post Share on other sites
Enchanted Girl Posted August 10, 2010 Share Posted August 10, 2010 You need to think on the opposite side of this coin as well. A lot of women with large breasts will be treated like crap because people assume they're promiscuous and want to be treated that way, even though it's over something they can't control. I honestly don't think breast size matters too much, unless the man has really high standards. No woman has a perfect body. There's always things people are insecure about and picked on for. And your boyfriend was an ass. People's bodies fluctuate in weight and appearance in various ways through out their entire lives. It's not like how your body fluctuated was extreme or anything. I'm sure his body fluctuated as well during your relationship with him, but you weren't pointing it out to him and being a jerk about it. Did he ever get a pimple, for instance? Did you tell him that if he got anymore that you might have to dump him because he was too unattractive? XD Don't listen to people who tell you to get plastic surgery either. =/ They all have blemishes in their bodies too and they are probably not worrying over it and trying to get surgery to correct it, even though they're trying to tell you that you need to. Link to post Share on other sites
Green Posted August 10, 2010 Share Posted August 10, 2010 I learned a long time ago that BIGGER is not always better. SHAPE of the breasts is much more important then the size. Yes girls with big breasts get more attention but it isn't necesarily good. I think breasts implants are usualy obviouse and fake looking and I much prefer a woman with natural breasts. Your ex-bf was an animal with no respect to say the things he did to you. Link to post Share on other sites
Katie29 Posted August 10, 2010 Share Posted August 10, 2010 I'm a 34dd and while I do get attention, it isn't always attention that is wanted. Most of the time it isn't, lol. There are days I wouldn't mind having a nice "c" cup, but we all want what we don't have! Link to post Share on other sites
Author LosingBattle Posted August 10, 2010 Author Share Posted August 10, 2010 Oooh, but a C cup is hardly small... medium sized, maybe, but not small like an A cup which is what I have... Yeah, C cup is like the ideal size anyway... I agree... Link to post Share on other sites
Katie29 Posted August 10, 2010 Share Posted August 10, 2010 Oooh, but a C cup is hardly small... medium sized, maybe, but not small like an A cup which is what I have... Yeah, C cup is like the ideal size anyway... I agree... I can't even where some of the other cute shirts girls where unless I want it all out there. I actually where one of the tank tops and a bra just for more support Link to post Share on other sites
Disillusioned Posted August 10, 2010 Share Posted August 10, 2010 Ugh, large breasts gross me out (and I'm male and straight). Given a choice, I'd go out with a flat-chested woman... my way of giving the Finger to the other guys and to peer pressure. >:-D BTW watch and see how busty women tend to attract attention and rude comments from guys who aren't great intellects... it never fails. Link to post Share on other sites
Katie29 Posted August 10, 2010 Share Posted August 10, 2010 Ugh, large breasts gross me out (and I'm male and straight). Given a choice, I'd go out with a flat-chested woman... my way of giving the Finger to the other guys and to peer pressure. >:-D BTW watch and see how busty women tend to attract attention and rude comments from guys who aren't great intellects... it never fails. Being one of those women with large breasts. Why are you "grossed out"? Link to post Share on other sites
somedude81 Posted August 10, 2010 Share Posted August 10, 2010 Being one of those women with large breasts. Why are you "grossed out"? Don't worry about him, my enjoyment for them, more than makes up for his being grossed out Link to post Share on other sites
Katie29 Posted August 10, 2010 Share Posted August 10, 2010 Don't worry about him, my enjoyment for them, more than makes up for his being grossed out I mean I can understand if a woman is not proportioned. So I was just curious. I see woman that are wearing the wrong bra or just don't have support and that does look gross. Link to post Share on other sites
somedude81 Posted August 10, 2010 Share Posted August 10, 2010 Each man is different in what his tastes are. There are many men who are attracted to a woman like this while she would actually send me running the other way. The best thing to realize is that you can't please them all. Link to post Share on other sites
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