Does breast size matter?

[somedude81]

I like tall men, but I would never dump a guy of average height just because he wasn't tall. Same goes for broad shoulders, blue eyes, big hands, etc., etc.

 

If you're willing to dump a woman for having small breasts, I think you must not care that much about her.

Of course you wouldn't dump him. You'd have to actually date him first to do that

So a "small rack" is a deficiency? Is a small dick a deficiency as well?

Definitely. And don't tell me that no woman has ever dumped a guy because she thought his penis was small.

[LadyFlame]

Of course you wouldn't dump him. You'd have to actually date him first to do that

 

Definitely. And don't tell me that no woman has ever dumped a guy because she thought his penis was small.

 

Not exactly dumped. But did make it clear, as sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind.

 

To the thread-starter: I'm surprised you have an issue; I thought it was about variety? You said you've always been into big breasts, surely a small-breasted woman would be welcome to you now? My ex, for example, loved girls with big butts before he met me. Then he met me and found I have a big butt (one of those bubbly ones, not the jiggling, sagging-to-the-floor type, just so that's clear) and then after a while he found himself more attracted to girls with flat bodies. I still say - his loss.

 

You had better sort out this issue you have. You don't want to turn into a cheat - which of course would be unforgivable and you would deserve to be castrated. I suggest you spice up your lovelife; do you have any festishes, like dressing up?

[youngskywalker]

Many men actually prefer small or average size breasts.

 

I'm one of them.

[here4her]

I'm one of them.

 

+1 not attractive to larger breast women.

[jennifer4]

YOu should break up with the her. She deserves a man who wants to be with her for who she is. You sound very superficial.

[LadyFlame]

YOu should break up with the her. She deserves a man who wants to be with her for who she is. You sound very superficial.

 

Men ARE superficial. He should be applauded for recognizing he has a problem with it, but still choosing to stick around. Imagine how she'd feel if he dumped her because she had small tits? She'd probably kill herself or hate men forever. It's good that he's trying to resolve his issue. Sounds like he does want to be with her for who she is, the problem is what she has (or rather, hasn't) got.

[USMCHokie]

Many men actually prefer small or average size breasts.

 

I am another. But breast size is not a factor at all for me. They are all wonderful.

[Wolf18]

The reactions of women to the OP are hilarious, so defensive.

 

When judging a mans height, women all say "I CANT HELPITS JUST MY PREFERENCE AND I CANT GET TURNED ON BY A GUY WHOSE ONLY 3 INCHES TALLER THAN ME IN MY CIRCUS STILTS", "IF YOU DONT LIKE IT, TOO BAD I CANT HELP WHAT TURNS ME ON" and all the girls nod in agreement...yet when the shoes on the other foot, "you're superficial", "you must have a small dick" , etc .

 

People who are this extreme about 1 feature are really sad and pathetic, male or female. The only difference is that maybe 1 out of 10 men has the luxury of being this neurotic about something like big tits, while atleast 7 or 8 out of 10 women are this way about a guys height. Not to mention there are actually guys who prefer small tits (count me as one of them) while I have never met a woman who preferred a guy under 5'10.

 

I'm glad that atleast women get to taste their own medicine about this. Here Here to all annoying, picky "breast men", hopefully one day you will make up the majority of the male population.

[LadyFlame]

The reactions of women to the OP are hilarious, so defensive.

 

When judging a mans height, women all say "I CANT HELPITS JUST MY PREFERENCE AND I CANT GET TURNED ON BY A GUY WHOSE ONLY 3 INCHES TALLER THAN ME IN MY CIRCUS STILTS", "IF YOU DONT LIKE IT, TOO BAD I CANT HELP WHAT TURNS ME ON" and all the girls nod in agreement...yet when the shoes on the other foot, "you're superficial", "you must have a small dick" , etc .

 

People who are this extreme about 1 feature are really sad and pathetic, male or female. The only difference is that maybe 1 out of 10 men has the luxury of being this neurotic about something like big tits, while atleast 7 or 8 out of 10 women are this way about a guys height. Not to mention there are actually guys who prefer small tits (count me as one of them) while I have never met a woman who preferred a guy under 5'10.

 

I'm glad that atleast women get to taste their own medicine about this. Here Here to all annoying, picky "breast men", hopefully one day you will make up the majority of the male population.

 

That's tarnishing all women with the same brush, by hoping 'breast men' make up the majority of the male population, you're implying that the majority of women are shallow about height. Wrong.

 

I suspect you are short, hence why your post seemed so bitter. I'm 5'6 but I like guys between 5-8 and 5'11. I'm not into guys over 6ft. They're too tall for me.

[LexiB]

He never said he wanted her to have giant knockers, just a cup size larger than an A...a very, very small A from his description.

 

Granted, this is a very sensitive issue, but you can't help what you do and don't find attractive - everyone has their baseline preferences. Unfortunately some features like breast and penis size aren't immediately discernible, not truly anyway. If either of those happen to be important to you...that's a tough spot to be in - for both parties .

 

To put it in a different perspective, I honestly don't know what I'd do if I discovered the guy I was dating had a 1-inch penis. I'm sure I'd give it my all to make the relationship work but ultimately there may not be enough about him and *us* for me to overlook it. This is what the OP needs to figure out - whether all the positives about his relationship outweigh this particular issue.

Edited June 23, 2011 by LexiB

[Wolf18]

That's tarnishing all women with the same brush, by hoping 'breast men' make up the majority of the male population, you're implying that the majority of women are shallow about height. Wrong.

 

I suspect you are short, hence why your post seemed so bitter. I'm 5'6 but I like guys between 5-8 and 5'11. I'm not into guys over 6ft. They're too tall for me.

 

I am 5'7 and this is too short for women.

 

It's not about bitterness. I am white and would say the same thing about women hating asian guys, i have brown hair and would say the same thing about women disliking red haired guys, I am average sized yet women would not stick around with a guy with a 3-4 inch penis, and so on. Of course there are exceptions, but womens neuroticism about little things like this is pretty general, and I have science, personal experience (I've been on the receiving end and seen guys in the same boat), as well as observing women as my evidence.

 

I hate this nonesense that women aren't as visual as men. That is bogus logic from the 1950's when women had no choice but to "settle" (IE, date a guy whose 1-2 inches under your ideal and maybe had a hint of red in his hair ) because they needed someone to support them . Today women are even more shallow and picky then men because women do not need sex as often as men or anyone to support them, so they can hold out forever and pass up perfectly good but not 10 out of 10 guys if they have to.

 

And yes, I hope women get to feel what me and millions of other guys feel all the time. That is the only way you all will be able to empathize and come back down to earth.

[LadyFlame]

I am 5'7 and this is too short for women.

 

It's not about bitterness. I am white and would say the same thing about women hating asian guys, i have brown hair and would say the same thing about women disliking red haired guys, I am average sized yet women would not stick around with a guy with a 3-4 inch penis, and so on. Of course there are exceptions, but womens neuroticism about little things like this is pretty general, and I have science, personal experience (I've been on the receiving end and seen guys in the same boat), as well as observing women as my evidence.

 

I hate this nonesense that women aren't as visual as men. That is bogus logic from the 1950's when women had no choice but to "settle" (IE, date a guy whose 1-2 inches under your ideal and maybe had a hint of red in his hair ) because they needed someone to support them . Today women are even more shallow and picky then men because women do not need sex as often as men or anyone to support them, so they can hold out forever and pass up perfectly good but not 10 out of 10 guys if they have to.

 

And yes, I hope women get to feel what me and millions of other guys feel all the time. That is the only way you all will be able to empathize and come back down to earth.

 

Sure, some women are like that. But only the shallow ones, as you have described. The truth is, you've probably been targeting the wrong women. You should go for the ones who are 5ft - 5.3. That will make you seem taller, plus girls who are that height don't tend to like taller guys because the pairing looks very comical.

 

If you're going for girls who are around my height, you're more likely to get rejected. I'm about 5'8 with heels and walking around with someone shorter than me wouldn't bug me so much if he made up for it in other departments, but then again I'm a rare breed and some women would be bothered by this.

 

I have to be brutal and say, though, that if his penis size was 3-4 inches then that is just too small for me; if he was short but had a large one, it would be a different story.

 

What you need to look for is the following:

 

A short girl, ranging between 4ft9 - 5ft3.

No sex drive

Average/plain-looking.

Non-demanding, non-judgemental and extremely passive

Younger than you (girls like older guys)

 

 

I think you have to set your sights lower than what you're doing.

[nyc_guy2003]

I guess since everyone's posting their ideal version of a man, I'll post my ideal version of a woman:

 

-2-6 years younger than me

-Large B to D cup boobs

-5'7" to 5'9"

-Tight, athletic @ss but not too big

-IQ 120-140

-Minimum bachelors degree, but no MDs or PhDs

-Brunette or blonde Catholic or Protestant, or Asian (Chinese or Korean only)

-Hair around nipple length with some waviness

-Athletic, preferably in soccer, tennis, or swimming

[LadyFlame]

Hair around the nipple! Urgh ... Some people have twisted taste

[Wolf18]

Sure, some women are like that. But only the shallow ones, as you have described. The truth is, you've probably been targeting the wrong women. You should go for the ones who are 5ft - 5.3. That will make you seem taller, plus girls who are that height don't tend to like taller guys because the pairing looks very comical.

 

If you're going for girls who are around my height, you're more likely to get rejected. I'm about 5'8 with heels and walking around with someone shorter than me wouldn't bug me so much if he made up for it in other departments, but then again I'm a rare breed and some women would be bothered by this.

 

I have to be brutal and say, though, that if his penis size was 3-4 inches then that is just too small for me; if he was short but had a large one, it would be a different story.

 

What you need to look for is the following:

 

A short girl, ranging between 4ft9 - 5ft3.

No sex drive

Average/plain-looking.

Non-demanding, non-judgemental and extremely passive

Younger than you (girls like older guys)

 

 

I think you have to set your sights lower than what you're doing.

 

Right, I'll get right on it. Just like every woman who is under a C cup needs to set her sights lower. Us below 5'10's and below C cup "inferiors" in fact should get together.

 

But you'll never get women to agree to that, every girl's a princess.

 

P.S., the shorter a girl is, the more likely she is to reject you over not being tall. Honestly the girls around 5'6-5'9 have always been more open to me than the short girls who need to live through some 7 feet tall guy.

[LadyFlame]

Right, I'll get right on it. Just like every woman who is under a C cup needs to set her sights lower. Us below 5'10's and below C cup "inferiors" in fact should get together.

 

But you'll never get women to agree to that, every girl's a princess.

 

P.S., the shorter a girl is, the more likely she is to reject you over not being tall. Honestly the girls around 5'6-5'9 have always been more open to me than the short girls who need to live through some 7 feet tall guy.

 

Well, you can laugh but you might find you benefit from my advice. Once you set your sights to the bottom of the barrel, you manage to achieve that comfort and companionship with each other because what you share in common is that you are the two people that nobody else wanted. And then you find yourself luckier than all those strapping 6-footers, who end up cheating, playing away, etc etc because they know they can have any girl they want.

 

So really, you should be glad that you are short.

[florence of suburbia]

Hair around the nipple! Urgh ... Some people have twisted taste

 

Hahaha. I don't think that's what he meant, but I like your version better. "Sorry darling, but this isn't going to work out. Your nipple hair is too short and straight."

[Ruby Slippers]

P.S., the shorter a girl is, the more likely she is to reject you over not being tall. Honestly the girls around 5'6-5'9 have always been more open to me than the short girls who need to live through some 7 feet tall guy.

He's right about this. I'm pretty tall, and while I feel I fit best with taller guys, I have no problem dating a guy around my height. But my short friends can't seem to cultivate an interest in any guy under 6'2". It seems pretty stupid to me.

[somedude81]

LOL! So if a woman is tall she wants a tall guy.

 

If a woman is short, she wants a tall guy.

 

:rolleyes: :rolleyes:

[musemaj11]

That's tarnishing all women with the same brush, by hoping 'breast men' make up the majority of the male population, you're implying that the majority of women are shallow about height. Wrong.

 

I suspect you are short, hence why your post seemed so bitter. I'm 5'6 but I like guys between 5-8 and 5'11. I'm not into guys over 6ft. They're too tall for me.

In other words you still want someone taller than you.

 

How is that any different than the OP? He just wants someone w a B cup, you know someone with bigger tits than his own ...

[utterer of lies]

I just don't get much satisfaction visually when we are together in bed if you know what I mean.

 

It doesn't matter if its her boobs, her ass, her face. There's obviously something missing, and you notice. Better end it now than wait until she'll get even more attached to you.

 

Yeah people might call you superficial, but a lack of attraction cannot really be fixed.

[Von]

I have been very selective in my life, and I have only dated women with large enough breasts to satisfy me. It starts from the beginning. I'm not even remotely attracted to very small breasts. Physical attraction is not something we can control.

 

Now then, I have been always open with people I have dated, and have no problem telling them what I think. The few women I have dated who had breasts on the smaller side (B minimum) I have told them they should get a boob job and they had no issue talking about it and were open to the idea. So maybe just tell her. Like " hey would you be willing to get a boob job if I payed for it because I think it'd be fun". But that's the downside, if you want it you may hafta pay (I don't know yur funds situation). It'd be a boost of confidence for her anyways. There is really no downside to it. Unless she's a everything natural freak. Just sayin

[nothappyjan]

I have been very selective in my life, and I have only dated women with large enough breasts to satisfy me. It starts from the beginning. I'm not even remotely attracted to very small breasts. Physical attraction is not something we can control.

 

Now then, I have been always open with people I have dated, and have no problem telling them what I think. The few women I have dated who had breasts on the smaller side (B minimum) I have told them they should get a boob job and they had no issue talking about it and were open to the idea. So maybe just tell her. Like " hey would you be willing to get a boob job if I payed for it because I think it'd be fun". But that's the downside, if you want it you may hafta pay (I don't know yur funds situation). It'd be a boost of confidence for her anyways. There is really no downside to it. Unless she's a everything natural freak. Just sayin

 

You sound like a jerk

 

 

Anyway if someone told me to get implants, it would probably be the last word they ever spoke. I LOVE my small breasts, no sagging, can exercise, wear what i want. If someone is going to throw away all i have to offer cause they arent BIG enough i say thank god cause i've dodged a major bullet

 

to the OP PLEASE dump your g/f and give her the chance to be appreciated by a different guy. Also maybe you should CHECK their breast size down to the inch so you will know if you can get off on them or not in the future before breaking their heart.

 

Excuse my while i vomit a little im my mouth at some of these men.

[musemaj11]

Am I the only guy who dont like fake boobs? It seems to me a lot of guys dont care. But I do. I think fake tits look weird.

[oaks]

A thread about boobies! Mmmm!

 

So long as her boobs are bigger than mine, and that she's happy enough with them that she doesn't complain too much about them being too small or too large or that they give her back ache, then I'm happy. I've been with some people who frequently complained about their breast size, and it's not a trait I enjoy in a partner.