MrNate Posted September 2, 2010 Share Posted September 2, 2010 I didn't know you were South American. That could explain a few things. Here in the states you could easily find a guy who would be so taken by your exotic looks and curvier bottom half that the top wouldn't matter. Natalie Portman and Keira Knightley are both highly desired by men and neither have a large chest. Yes. Link to post Share on other sites
Rorschach Posted September 2, 2010 Share Posted September 2, 2010 Throwing my hat in with the 'small breasts are better' crowd. I've never been much of a breast guy and whenever people talk about them I find myself going The I realized I just find smaller breasts more attractive, a nice A or B cup is wonderful. Link to post Share on other sites
jean-luc sisko Posted September 2, 2010 Share Posted September 2, 2010 i would say yes, to me, breast size does matter. I think larger breasts, maybe D or even E cup, seems to me more womanly and feminine. That's not meant to be offensive, but I couldn't really date a less endowed woman. Generally, and this is not meant facetiously, I judge potential dates on their chest. Link to post Share on other sites
Kyle50 Posted October 18, 2010 Share Posted October 18, 2010 Absolutely size does not matter. I would love my wife to have smaller boobs. She had a boob job before we met and now she has little or no feeling in them. The past few months I notice the small chested women and wish things were different... Link to post Share on other sites
somedude81 Posted October 18, 2010 Share Posted October 18, 2010 Absolutely size does not matter. I would love my wife to have smaller boobs. She had a boob job before we met and now she has little or no feeling in them. The past few months I notice the small chested women and wish things were different... If they didn't matter, you wouldn't wish she had smaller breasts... BTW, bumping up old threads is generally frowned upon. Link to post Share on other sites
dreamingoftigers Posted October 18, 2010 Share Posted October 18, 2010 Since when is bumping up old threads frowned upon. It is nice to know that there is some variety of opinion on this topic. Link to post Share on other sites
lalalovely Posted October 18, 2010 Share Posted October 18, 2010 I commend you for never wanting implants. I think it turns the natural real beauty of a woman into being manufactured. They usually end up looking like a couple of hard basketballs awkwardly protruding from a girls chest. Not to offend anyone with implants. Not everyone thinks that..just my personal feelings. And I'm sorry but guys that drool and oggle over big breasts are usually shallow and cheap! not that natural big boobs are unattractive or there is something wrong with a man being attracted to a busty girl. but when guys are only attracted to a girl because she has bigger boobs its so sleezy! cmon.. i think its more about the hips, butt and waistline these days. most guys i have dated or talked to on the matter say the one part of a girl they find them self attracted to most is hips and backside. and just cause you dont have boobs doesnt mean you dont have curves! ok im done. lol Link to post Share on other sites
JamesM Posted October 18, 2010 Share Posted October 18, 2010 Since this began again, I will comment. At one point, I would have said that size does not matter, but I think it does. The question as to what size may vary in a person's life, but preferences are preferences. Personally, I like them bigger but not too big. Having said that, if they are big and have no sensitivity, then forget it. The perfect breast is a combination of sensitivity, size and "perkiness." As the saying goes, "I knows em when I sees em." IMO the most important part is sensitivity. The size and perkiness are closely tied to the amount of love one has for the person attached. I think if we love someone who has smaller ones, then we favor smaller ones. If we love someone who has larger ones, then we favor larger ones. While we may have preferences before meeting that person, I think the preferences are modified based on how we feel about someone. Implants? No. Natural is the best no matter the size. Link to post Share on other sites
irc333 Posted October 18, 2010 Share Posted October 18, 2010 I don't really mind whatever size, but I do have an affinity for larger breasts (C & D cups), for one, you can do things with them you couldn't do much with smaller ones. For one, safe sex. ;-) Link to post Share on other sites
Tim The Enchanter Posted October 18, 2010 Share Posted October 18, 2010 For me, it's much more about the whole ensemble. Apologies for being crude, but at least two of my favourite porn stars (Alexa May and Sacha Grey) have quite small boobs, but they make up for it by having fantastic bodies and being gorgeous. Having said that, I'm more of a leg and butt man. Link to post Share on other sites
Tim The Enchanter Posted October 18, 2010 Share Posted October 18, 2010 I don't really mind whatever size, but I do have an affinity for larger breasts (C & D cups), for one, you can do things with them you couldn't do much with smaller ones. Heh heh, I forgot about that. Link to post Share on other sites
irc333 Posted October 18, 2010 Share Posted October 18, 2010 There's this one woman I saw, older, was a bit thicker, about 5'3" probably the ol Sir Mix Alot measurements..just guessing at 36/24/36. She was a bit thicker, but her big boobs and equally just as big hips/butt, gave her mid-section an ILLUSION of a thinner waistline. That's another thing, such measurements can make a woman look decent proportionately. She had thick thighs, too, I think she did a lot of walking...she might've been a bit toned even though she was thicker. Heh heh, I forgot about that. Link to post Share on other sites
DonnyWhoLovedBowling Posted October 31, 2010 Share Posted October 31, 2010 To each his own. Personally, I'm very attracted to larger breasts.. Its just a feature that I think is attractive (like a nice smile, large eyes, etc). It doesn't mean that I don't like small breasts though -- just a preference. That said, there are a variety of ways that a woman can be attractive and breasts are only one of them. I wouldn't obsess over it and I wouldn't assume that breast size is causing men to treat you in a certain way.. Link to post Share on other sites
jasperste Posted June 22, 2011 Share Posted June 22, 2011 Hi I am seeing a lovely girl. We've been dating for 6 months nearly now. She is very slim and is virtually flat chested. I am a breast man always have been. I just don't get much satisfaction visually when we are together in bed if you know what I mean. I thought it would pass and I would just get used to her chest and love it regardless but it's not happening. I've read the post about how physical attraction increases with time but it just hasn't with me and I'm finding myself staring at woman who are larger in that department and I'm not a pervert! Any other guys got over this hurdle? I am ashamed of myself that I am unable to 'enjoy' her body as it is! Am I doomed to always ONLY find larger breasted women attractive? By the way I'm not after HUGE ones just a B cup would be fine, something to hold onto but my girlfriend has the body of a child. And no I am not going to ask her to get a boob job!! Incidentally we got together by chance - it was a one night stand that just carried on and now we are dating. I wasn't even that attracted to her at the start but I want to know if I can ever be attracted to her. Link to post Share on other sites
somedude81 Posted June 22, 2011 Share Posted June 22, 2011 I want to know if I can ever be attracted to her. Only you can figure that out. Link to post Share on other sites
jasperste Posted June 22, 2011 Share Posted June 22, 2011 Yes I know! Are there any guys who have been with or are with a woman with a flat chest when they find large breasts attractive? Did their sex life suffer as a result? Did the r/s last? Link to post Share on other sites
LittleTiger Posted June 22, 2011 Share Posted June 22, 2011 I'm not a guy but I can tell you that if you weren't 'that attracted to her at the start' then it's very unlikely that you will become attracted later on. I think, even in the other thread, the OP mentioned that there had been a good level of attraction in the first place. She just said that it increased the more her feelings grew. It's also more likely that attraction will grow as your feeling grow if you're a woman because, like it not (and I know a lot of people will argue with me on this) human biology dictates that men are more visual when it comes to attraction than women. There are exceptions of course, but usually that's the way it works. So if you look at her and she doesn't turn you on, yes, I'd say you have a problem if you're intending to make this a LTR. Link to post Share on other sites
samspade Posted June 22, 2011 Share Posted June 22, 2011 Don't be ashamed of what you find attractive - it's not a choice. If you like big jugs, go after women with big jugs. However I do recommend variety in life, so a small-breasted woman may seem like a fun change of pace for a guy like you. Personally, I'm not picky about this kind of thing (as long as they're not disgustingly huge). I think women are more obsessed with breasts than men are. In any case, attraction is important, so go for what you like, not what you feel pressured into liking. Link to post Share on other sites
lilmisscheerful Posted June 22, 2011 Share Posted June 22, 2011 I'm only an A cup and I would be really upset if a guy stopped wanting to date me after seeing me naked. I'd understand teenage boys with this attitude but surely it's more important when you're older to be with someone you are compatible with and whose company you enjoy, than someone you don't but happens to have D cups. How about buying her some push up bras or sexy underwear? Link to post Share on other sites
Ruby Slippers Posted June 22, 2011 Share Posted June 22, 2011 I like tall men, but I would never dump a guy of average height just because he wasn't tall. Same goes for broad shoulders, blue eyes, big hands, etc., etc. If you're willing to dump a woman for having small breasts, I think you must not care that much about her. Link to post Share on other sites
nyc_guy2003 Posted June 22, 2011 Share Posted June 22, 2011 I'm of the opinion that if a chick has a small rack then she better have a perfect @ss. A nice @ss makes up for a lot of deficiencies. Link to post Share on other sites
iris219 Posted June 22, 2011 Share Posted June 22, 2011 I'm of the opinion that if a chick has a small rack then she better have a perfect @ss. A nice @ss makes up for a lot of deficiencies. So a "small rack" is a deficiency? Is a small dick a deficiency as well? Link to post Share on other sites
nyc_guy2003 Posted June 22, 2011 Share Posted June 22, 2011 So a "small rack" is a deficiency? Is a small dick a deficiency as well? Well like I mentioned in another thread, if a guy has a small d!ck then he better be very looking, so yes, I am an equal opportunity critic. Link to post Share on other sites
Eternal Sunshine Posted June 22, 2011 Share Posted June 22, 2011 Honestly, for guys the physical attraction is unlikely to grow. If by 6 months you are still not over her breast size, it's unlikely that you will ever be. I feel sorry for the girl Link to post Share on other sites
iris219 Posted June 22, 2011 Share Posted June 22, 2011 Well like I mentioned in another thread, if a guy has a small d!ck then he better be very looking, so yes, I am an equal opportunity critic. I just thought "deficiency" was the wrong word. Breast size is more of a preference for some men, while some don't care at all. Most are just happy to be close to naked boobs. Many men actually prefer small or average size breasts. Link to post Share on other sites
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