Author Katie29 Posted August 10, 2010 Author Share Posted August 10, 2010 the woman pictured is irrelevant. why don't you try answering the question? what is stopping you from achieving the dream physique that you have always wanted? and here's a thinner alternative if the picture really bothers you that much http://c2.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/74/l_70c9eb0a35c97def2d91a598e7fbf60d.jpg you have yet to put up a photo of a non model. you are clueless and I'm done talking to a clueless person. good night. Link to post Share on other sites
brahmabull117 Posted August 10, 2010 Share Posted August 10, 2010 Thank you for the apology you need to stop and think before you speak tho not every one is lazy. I think you may have decent intentions? How ever the best way to train a horse isent to beet it to death. That only makes it resist more and hate you in the end. Seriously try a softer approach next time if there willing to listen great! If not move on not your prob. Now far as that pic some men would say shes to built ide Imagen women are suppose to be soft but firm no? She looks like she can lift 200 with one hand I mean if thats what your into thats cool and all but I doubt she would be every guys ideal women.. that woman has the perfect body - http://www.atlnightspots.com/wp-content/gallery/the-real-chun-li/natalia_inoue_atlnightspots_models_1.jpg looks like one of those amazon warrior goddesses who is both perfectly feminine and can kick your butt at the same time. She is gorgeous Link to post Share on other sites
SpanksTheMonkey Posted August 10, 2010 Share Posted August 10, 2010 I think you would be very surprised to see some size 18 women that dont even look it. and again, just because YOU say it is, doesn't make it so.. Hight plays allot into how ones weight is carried my bf is around 6ft3ish almost 6ft4 and hes near the 300 mark now. But that said he still carries the weight well he looks like a "big guy" but not necessarily a "fat guy" Now if you have a guy who is 5ft6 and weights the same amount it would look rather different same with women but men seam to forget that... Link to post Share on other sites
Author Katie29 Posted August 10, 2010 Author Share Posted August 10, 2010 Okay, I don't like how people aren't actually answering the question. This isn't a thread about whether or not people can lose weight. It's about whether or not guys would be willing to date someone who was fat with a pretty face. I think a much better example than the rest of you posted would be kirstie ally. (I hope these pictures actually show up.) http://www.insidesocal.com/outinhollywood/.fatactress.jpg http://jacksonville.com/sites/default/files/editorial/images/files/editorial/images/additional/86/web_KirstieAlley1.jpg http://www.celebritywonder.com/picture/Kirstie_Alley/KirstieAlley_Wargo_4567510.jpg http://kdotrunsthis.files.wordpress.com/2009/11/kristie-alley-fat.jpg Now I realize not all people are going to think her face is pretty, but assuming that you do. Would you date her (or someone like her)? I think she's a better example than the ones I've seen thus far. that "bull" guy doesn't get it. He keeps posting, models, playboy girls, and fitness gurus. I have said "average, everyday women" multiples times. Its pointless for him. Maybe another guy will get the point of the question. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Katie29 Posted August 10, 2010 Author Share Posted August 10, 2010 Hight plays allot into how ones weight is carried my bf is around 6ft3ish almost 6ft4 and hes near the 300 mark now. But that said he still carries the weight well he looks like a "big guy" but not necessarily a "fat guy" Now if you have a guy who is 5ft6 and weights the same amount it would look rather different same with women but men seam to forget that... he started getting bent out of shape when I said I didn't like guys that are all muscles. I think he took it as a personal slight. Now hes gone overboard...lol Link to post Share on other sites
brahmabull117 Posted August 10, 2010 Share Posted August 10, 2010 he started getting bent out of shape when I said I didn't like guys that are all muscles. I think he took it as a personal slight. Now hes gone overboard...lol I don't get it, what does them being fitness models have to do with anything? does that mean they are better than you? I can tell you that I'm an average Joe and I have a much better looking physique than nearly everybody in hollywood. Does that mean I'm better than you? if not, what's your excuse? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Katie29 Posted August 10, 2010 Author Share Posted August 10, 2010 I don't get it, what does them being fitness models have to do with anything? does that mean they are better than you? I can tell you that I'm an average Joe and I have a much better looking physique than nearly everybody in hollywood. Does that mean I'm better than you? if not, what's your excuse? you can keep posting, but I'm done speaking with you. good night. Link to post Share on other sites
brahmabull117 Posted August 10, 2010 Share Posted August 10, 2010 you can keep posting, but I'm done speaking with you. good night. seriously, here is a pic of me - http://i50.tinypic.com/219c1za.jpg much better looking physique than 99% of models in hollywood... so what's stopping you from achieving the same? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Katie29 Posted August 10, 2010 Author Share Posted August 10, 2010 seriously, here is a pic of me - http://i50.tinypic.com/219c1za.jpg much better looking physique than 99% of models in hollywood... so what's stopping you from achieving the same? ok bud. lol! you crack me up. night! Link to post Share on other sites
Enchanted Girl Posted August 10, 2010 Share Posted August 10, 2010 I don't get it, what does them being fitness models have to do with anything? does that mean they are better than you? I can tell you that I'm an average Joe and I have a much better looking physique than nearly everybody in hollywood. Does that mean I'm better than you? if not, what's your excuse? OMG. I can't believe you. Ahahahaha. Seriously, I started realizing that that thread you made was all a bunch of false humility. You can't talk to girls you are attracted to supposedly, but you keep going on and on about how hot you are and insulting the girls on this place. I just don't know what to say. XD Except laughter. Link to post Share on other sites
SpanksTheMonkey Posted August 10, 2010 Share Posted August 10, 2010 he started getting bent out of shape when I said I didn't like guys that are all muscles. I think he took it as a personal slight. Now hes gone overboard...lol Yeah but I think he has decent ententions we all see things diffrently maybe to him those are avarage women? Eh don't let get to you I do also see your side of it your frustrated because you think hes not contributing to what you asked for fair enough. My suggestion try the shiny ignore feature ive recently found it can work wonders! Im overweight as I said before and my bf always tells me how cute of a face I have so yes I think some can overcome other things if your cute in general.. Link to post Share on other sites
SteveC80 Posted August 10, 2010 Share Posted August 10, 2010 I dont look at weight, different women carry weight differently I like my women to be in some semblance of shape,if her ass looks like she sat on gravel for a few days ill pass Link to post Share on other sites
Author Katie29 Posted August 10, 2010 Author Share Posted August 10, 2010 Yeah but I think he has decent ententions we all see things diffrently maybe to him those are avarage women? Eh don't let get to you I do also see your side of it your frustrated because you think hes not contributing to what you asked for fair enough. My suggestion try the shiny ignore feature ive recently found it can work wonders! Im overweight as I said before and my bf always tells me how cute of a face I have so yes I think some can overcome other things if your cute in general.. He's clueless bout the whole reason why I posted. I'm done with him. Link to post Share on other sites
jamesum Posted August 10, 2010 Share Posted August 10, 2010 I think you would be very surprised to see some size 18 women that dont even look it. and again, just because YOU say it is, doesn't make it so.. Yeah thats like saying "Women arent shorter than men because a few women are taller than men." :rolleyes: Link to post Share on other sites
djhall Posted August 10, 2010 Share Posted August 10, 2010 In my experience, guys have a few body types they find particuarly attractive and a tolerance for how far they are willing to vary from their "ideal". If you aren't basically one of the body types they find attractive to begin with, or you vary past their tolerance level one way or the other, then that is very important to them. That said, every guy is different in terms of what they find attractive and how much tolerance they have for variation. You have to know the guy's types and tolerance to know how "thin" or "thick" you can be before it becomes in issue for him regardless of how pretty your face is. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Katie29 Posted August 10, 2010 Author Share Posted August 10, 2010 Yeah thats like saying "Women arent shorter than men because a few women are taller than men." :rolleyes: another know-it-all. Ok. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Katie29 Posted August 10, 2010 Author Share Posted August 10, 2010 In my experience, guys have a few body types they find particuarly attractive and a tolerance for how far they are willing to vary from their "ideal". If you aren't basically one of the body types they find attractive to begin with, or you vary past their tolerance level one way or the other, then that is very important to them. That said, every guy is different in terms of what they find attractive and how much tolerance they have for variation. You have to know the guy's types and tolerance to know how "thin" or "thick" you can be before it becomes in issue for him regardless of how pretty your face is. women are less driven by physical attributes. Too bad men are not as "deep" Link to post Share on other sites
djhall Posted August 10, 2010 Share Posted August 10, 2010 women are less driven by physical attributes. Too bad men are not as "deep" Of course, stereotypes don't apply to everyone, but in general, I do tend to agree that, on average, men tend to place more importance on appearance in sexual attraction than women do, and women tend to place more importance on emotional connection in sexual attraction than men do. Link to post Share on other sites
SteveC80 Posted August 10, 2010 Share Posted August 10, 2010 women are less driven by physical attributes. Too bad men are not as "deep" lol at this Link to post Share on other sites
Author Katie29 Posted August 10, 2010 Author Share Posted August 10, 2010 lol at this why do you disagree? Link to post Share on other sites
BentSpine Posted August 10, 2010 Share Posted August 10, 2010 women are less driven by physical attributes.I agree it's true for the minority of women who desire kids more than a companion and lover. But I believe the majority of women who can support themselves want an attractive partner PRETTY much as men do. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Katie29 Posted August 10, 2010 Author Share Posted August 10, 2010 I agree it's true for the minority of women who desire kids more than a companion and lover. But I believe the majority of women who can support themselves want an attractive partner PRETTY much as men do. Um, I support myself and have since I was 19. But because I want a family means I don't need to be attracted to my mate? thats the most ridiculous thing I have heard tonight. and I have heard alot of stupid stuff! oh someone whos good sexually is VERY important, as well as some other ahem things.. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Katie29 Posted August 10, 2010 Author Share Posted August 10, 2010 I agree it's true for the minority of women who desire kids more than a companion and lover. But I believe the majority of women who can support themselves want an attractive partner PRETTY much as men do. And women that DON'T want kids are the minority not the ones that do. Link to post Share on other sites
Raderick Posted August 10, 2010 Share Posted August 10, 2010 Weight means a ton to me (no pun intended). I don't mind a bit of meat on the bone, but you know overweight when you see it, and I personally don't see any attraction to overweight people. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Katie29 Posted August 10, 2010 Author Share Posted August 10, 2010 Weight means a ton to me (no pun intended). I don't mind a bit of meat on the bone, but you know overweight when you see it, and I personally don't see any attraction to overweight people. I think "overweight" is sometimes in the eyes of the beholder. Link to post Share on other sites
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