oxfordsocks Posted August 16, 2010 Share Posted August 16, 2010 what aabout guys that cam with other girls or watch live girls on cam --is this different than porn if they are talking together and having the one on one stuff. i think it is and is in the categoy of cheating. perhaps regular porn doesn[t do it they might need the 'chat " with it. Any opinions on that in a long distance relationship? Link to post Share on other sites
BlackLovely Posted August 16, 2010 Share Posted August 16, 2010 Who are you referring to? Sorry, I wasn't clear. I was referring to impz assumption that I have never had a long distance relationship. He seemed quite certain that I didn't know what I was talking about, just because I don't have a rosy view of LDR's. I would feel very silly, if I told a poster that it's "best not to say anything if you've never experienced...", and it turned out she had . I think impz was simply speaking from an angry and offended place. Impz, I certainly wasn't trying to upset you. I was just stating my opinion, which is what I thought LS was for. It might be helpful to realize that everyone has different views. Just because someone doesn't agree with you, it doesn't mean that they are trying to be mean. Link to post Share on other sites
Omei Posted August 28, 2010 Share Posted August 28, 2010 Look OP if you don't like him watching porn grab a cam and cam with each other or have phone sex. I know for me I love looking at something when I'm horny and in the mood to take care of business. My boyfriend is the same way. Doesn't mean we're going to cheat though, just means we're both human with a good sex drive and a pulse. Haha agreed. That's some great advice me and my BF cam sometimes in the mood. And if you trust him enough like I do mine being friends for many years before our LDR you can always start up your own personal nude photo folders I know my BF still watches porn once-and-a-while but I also know he breaks out his personal folder of me often and I keep it updated for him to stay interested...But only do this if you trust him 100% sending photo's of yourself to someone over the net can be messy! I also know what its like to have a BF who looks porn excessively I had an ex that would collect porn and spend up to 5-6 hours a day collecting anything he could get his hands on and this can make you feel unattractive, and awkward and you can start to wonder if you're partner even finds you sexually attractive and it can hurt. IMO if its as excessive as this I would call it a porn obsession. But maybe hes just a horny guy and bored too so he looks just to look even when hes not in the mood? I wouldn't worry as much about it unless he was still doing it as much as when you guys were together RL. Link to post Share on other sites
Citizen Erased Posted August 29, 2010 Share Posted August 29, 2010 My only issue with my SO looking at porn is if it gets in the way of me getting some. Apart from that, he's not going to bars and hooking up, he's at home having phone sex with me and we're planning our not so distant future of ending the distance. Consider me happy. Porn or pictures of celebs or whatever is so the last thing you should be worrying about in an LDR. Link to post Share on other sites
marlena Posted August 29, 2010 Share Posted August 29, 2010 My only issue with my SO looking at porn is if it gets in the way of me getting some. Absolutely CE! If it enhances the sex between a couple, then, I would say it is a good thing. As long as it´s kept virtual, who cares? Link to post Share on other sites
DavidWhite Posted August 29, 2010 Share Posted August 29, 2010 Once or twice a year? I think you should let him watch porn, otherwise things could get messy Link to post Share on other sites
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