lostsoulmate Posted August 11, 2010 Share Posted August 11, 2010 I don't know how many times we have been here. This has been going on for 9 years.... Have you ever met someone that never really goes away. We met, dated for 5 months... and still 9 years later (he has children, I have children) neither of us married or is with anyone now. We still have a lot of the same friends, even though I moved very far away for many years and still live several hours away. I have tried the "If you love something, set it free and if it comes back to you, you know it's true love." I have set these emotions free so many times. The last month has been so real so right and so fullfilling. We had a conversation about what problems "we" as a couple had. We could only come up with one "timing". We always seem to find each other at the wrong time to ever truly try and build an "us". I just want to scream!!! Link to post Share on other sites
nokturn Posted August 11, 2010 Share Posted August 11, 2010 Sounds like you two need to sit down and have a real talk about where you both stand as of today. Maybe that's all that needs to happen for you to have that revelation -- whatever it may be. Link to post Share on other sites
Author lostsoulmate Posted August 11, 2010 Author Share Posted August 11, 2010 Well, I can tell you that will never happen. It is as if we both know that it won't work again this time. Because neither of us is in a position where we would move closer to the other because of our wonderful children. It is hard to look at someone you have loved for so long, (I mean truly love, no matter what!!!!!) and know that when you leave it's back to our lonely life of lives of living as single parents. I know he loves me and he knows I love him, but our children are more important than the way we feel. I WANT TO SCREAM SOME MORE!!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
myloveis4ever Posted August 18, 2010 Share Posted August 18, 2010 have faith Link to post Share on other sites
Author lostsoulmate Posted September 21, 2010 Author Share Posted September 21, 2010 is truly patience.... After a very long heart to heart talk, we both decided that we are the "one" for each other. What we have will never go anywhere (we are both good and putting these feelings in a box and placing that box on the top shelf, out of reach, out of sight, but still there). Our lives, however complicated they may be now, someday we will be with each other. We will try to make it work, however we can. I love him. He loves me. Even though I don't get to see him, hear him, touch him, or kiss him everyday, I don't feel lonely anymore. I never felt alone, just lonely. That feeling is gone. I trust that one day it will work for us to be together all the time, to spend what is left of our lives together. Link to post Share on other sites
Sunny-side-up Posted September 21, 2010 Share Posted September 21, 2010 is truly patience.... After a very long heart to heart talk, we both decided that we are the "one" for each other. What we have will never go anywhere (we are both good and putting these feelings in a box and placing that box on the top shelf, out of reach, out of sight, but still there). Our lives, however complicated they may be now, someday we will be with each other. We will try to make it work, however we can. I love him. He loves me. Even though I don't get to see him, hear him, touch him, or kiss him everyday, I don't feel lonely anymore. I never felt alone, just lonely. That feeling is gone. I trust that one day it will work for us to be together all the time, to spend what is left of our lives together. Oh WOW.... I love to hear about some nice stuff in this world. You're apart... no matter. Youve found each other! Link to post Share on other sites
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