alexgrlhot Posted February 15, 2004 Share Posted February 15, 2004 Do all mariages end up in divorce or just plain bad? I dont want to get married and end up not having sex or end up cheating. How can you keep marriage relationships alive? Is it possible not to fight on a regular basis? Link to post Share on other sites
jester Posted February 15, 2004 Share Posted February 15, 2004 Do all mariages end up in divorce or just plain bad? Many do after a number of years. A few do not. How can you keep marriage relationships alive? If I knew I wouldn't be sitting here by myself typing this crap. Many folks swear by something called "marriagebuilders.com," which has alot of helpful material. Is it possible not to fight on a regular basis? Yes. Separate or get a divorce. Seriously, check out this web site. <URL removed> Link to post Share on other sites
resigned Posted February 16, 2004 Share Posted February 16, 2004 I have been married twice. Divorced once. Happy marriage? Hard to say. I don't think I would get married again if and when this one ends. I don't think it is all that it is cracked up to be. In fact,I think marriage is force on us by many other factors than love. Life is hard financially, socially and legally. We are sometimes force to make decisions having very little to do with love. The laws make it very hard to just form a loving union with someone. Did you know that if your lover goes into the hospital you have no rights unless you are married? Even if they are dying and you want to see them. Family can...you may not if the powers that be say no. There is other `f too involving taxes property ownership and such. Link to post Share on other sites
corythosaurus Posted February 16, 2004 Share Posted February 16, 2004 Yes, there are happy endings. But happy endings don't come without hard work. Number one factor in marriage - COMMUNICATION Keep communication alive, and everything else will come into place. Talk to one another, tell each other what makes you happy, sad, scared, nervous, strong, proud, humble, everything. Talk together, grow together. Link to post Share on other sites
JENNIFERMCLAYTON Posted February 17, 2004 Share Posted February 17, 2004 My mom had the perfect marriage. They never said things in anger, which is the biggest mistake in marraige. There are certain lines which should never be crossed. Infedelity, name calling and neglect. Marraige is a wonderful thing. To live a life with another should only enhance it. If you can stay focused on your partner as well as yourself, you will live happily ever after! Link to post Share on other sites
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