Sparky Posted February 15, 2004 Share Posted February 15, 2004 There's this girl at school who seemed like she was interested in me. She used to smile to me, and be very friendly (she talked to me once), and didn't mind me being around her (actually, she liked it). I knew she liked me a little bit. I'm interested in her. I'm a pretty confident guy, and don't care what others really think about me. The only exception is when it comes to the opposite sex. I kind of feel worthless and an outcast whenever I think about the girl(s) I like. At the first dance, I went and danced (grind) with her and she didn't mind. She held my hands like she liked me. At semi-formal this year, I was just walking around, and whenever I glimpsed over at her, come near her, or try to grind with her, she'd run and hide. I couldn't ask her to dance because she kept running from me. After that, it kept going on; every time I go near her, she'd either do one of these things: 1. She'd say, "AH!", and go hide (smiling). 2. She'd say, "AH!", and turn around (smiling). 3. She'd be talking and once she see's me, she stops immediately until I'm gone. 4. She'd move away as if she doesn't want to touch me. At first, I thought that this was a sign of affection. Most girls that act like this around me DO like me. But then all of a sudden at the Valentine's Dance, she was dancing with a bunch of guys, and whenever I look at her, her friends will start talking about me, then she'll look at me and run and hide. I didn't think this was a good thing. Then when I went to ask her to dance, she says "NO!!!" Now I know that she doesn't like me! I'm starting to think that it's because I can't stop looking at her, and she notices, and feels uncomfortable. It's really hard to stop looking at her because she's very attractive. DOES THIS CHICK LIKE ME OR NOT?! If she doesn't like me, is it possible for me to get her to like me again? How do I do it? I'm not going to give up hope yet!! The only important thing I know about women is that they go for self-confidence more than looks.[size=0][color=black][/color][font=times new roman][/font] Link to post Share on other sites
Darkangelism Posted February 15, 2004 Share Posted February 15, 2004 I doubt it, if she iked you she wouldnt say no, move on and find someone else, she is probably thinking you are a stalker or something cause you havnt taken the hint. Link to post Share on other sites
dyermaker Posted February 15, 2004 Share Posted February 15, 2004 Originally posted by Sparky The only important thing I know about women is that they go for self-confidence more than looks. That's only AFTER they like you--Self-confidence is not enough to get an uninterested girl to like you. Life's too short to spend time chasing a girl who doesn't like you, especially when you never had a relationship. Also, what are you doing grinding at a semi-formal? There's a time and a place, amigo. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sparky Posted February 16, 2004 Author Share Posted February 16, 2004 Your right. I should move on. It doesn't matter what one girl thinks about you. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sparky Posted February 19, 2004 Author Share Posted February 19, 2004 But there is one question that still remains unanswered. Is there any chance in hell I can get her to like me? If so, how should I do it? I want to visit every possibility before I move on. Link to post Share on other sites
carla Posted February 19, 2004 Share Posted February 19, 2004 Get a girlfriend. That will probably make her look your way again. We always want what we can't have. Link to post Share on other sites
faux Posted February 19, 2004 Share Posted February 19, 2004 This girl doesn't seem to like you at all. In fact it seems she is freaked out by your behavior. She'd dance with you and NOT run away from you if she was interested. Maybe at first she thought she was but changed her mind. She has a right to do that. Please don't put yourself into this situation. You'll keep looking at her or pursuing her, and she'll get freaked out and think you're a nut. Unfortunately she seems like one of those girls who isn't going to be nice enough to say "I don't like you. Leave me alone. I don't want anything to do with you." But she's expecting you to understand. So I can't say I think too highly of her in that regard. She ought to tell you instead of acting immature like this. But try to read into what she is doing and just back off before it becomes a problem. It also seems you're obsessing over this girl to some extent, hopefully not too much, when you posted twice in a row: First saying yes, she is unimportant, but then asking how you can get her to like you. You can't "get her to" or "make" her like you. That's her own decision. Save yourself the trouble and move on. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sparky Posted February 19, 2004 Author Share Posted February 19, 2004 I understand that she has a right to like me, but I just wish girls would just TELL you face-to-face. It's just that for some weird reason, I can't convince myself that she doesn't like me. But you are right about one thing: She's not that important if she acts like this. Link to post Share on other sites
luvcrazy02 Posted February 20, 2004 Share Posted February 20, 2004 Originally posted by faux Maybe at first she thought she was but changed her mind. It also seems you're obsessing over this girl to some extent, hopefully not too much, when you posted twice in a row: First saying yes, she is unimportant, but then asking how you can get her to like you. This is definitely obvious sparky. it seems you are obsessing over this girl. If this girl was interested in you in any way, she would probably dance with you...especially when she already has before. I think she did change her mind....it happens. Instead of playing games, why don't you just go up to her and ask her...if she just runs away...then forget about her...she'd be a waste of your time. This will continue forever if you don't let it go. Link to post Share on other sites
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