Affair again?

[Butchannon]

I found out that my GF who is trying to reconcile with me has got secret facebook profile which she deleted when I found out. She wrote to her friend which she knew before us already on her FB wall. She liked his status when he wrote "I miss her", "I love her" and commented it. They began to write to eachother via FB one month before DDay. When she went to live with her parents he moved in in the city closer to her. I don't know why would he moved to city 190 kms away?

 

She said her was just her friend and she was so nice to her because he had some sort of heart disease and that I have got nothing to worry about. She said she learnt the lesson and that she wanted to be only with me. She also said that he finds her attractive but she said to him she wanted nothing with him.

 

I just can't trust her... We don't live together, in the beginning of the relationship she cheated on me with at least 10 boys, to at least 40 she sent her naked pictures and had webcam sex. I have got Chlamydia and HPV infections from her. She put me in risk of infertility because of Chlamydia.

 

I don't know what to do. We have a child together. If only I knew all that before the child has come.

 

Don't know anymore what to do...

Edited August 16, 2010 by Butchannon

[cookie2]

Sorry for your situation dude. You need to get the hell away from this lying, disease-ridden skank. Do what is necessary for the welfare of your child, but end your relationship with this woman immediately.

[Disintegration]

It doesn't seem like she is sincere about reconciling at all. She will never change. You know she wont, just look at her track record. Do you really want to contniue to live your life like this. She most definitely can't be trusted, she gave you a couple of std's, she may end up giving you more if you continue on with her.

 

I know it's difficult to leave her but she is only bringing upon pain to you.

[BeagleGal]

I read this part (the bolded) and had to laugh. Sorry. Couldn't help it.

 

Ok, Butchannon - cookie is right. Get the hell away from this girl. Why in the world did you stick by her while she constantly cheated and infected you with STD's??? I understand you have a child together and I'm sorry for that as she is clearly unfit to be a mother if she's carrying on like this.

You need to end it and you need to look after yourself and your child. She has shown time and time again that she is irresponsible and immature. If you stay with her, she's just going to continue cheating and God forbid, give you another STD or worse.

 

Get the f*ck out.

 

Sorry for your situation dude. You need to get the hell away from this lying, disease-ridden skank. Do what is necessary for the welfare of your child, but end your relationship with this woman immediately.

[spriggig]

Eject and take your kid with you. Stand up like a man and fight for your kid, you'll most likely win full custody.

[TigerCub]

Sorry buddy, but why the hell are you with her?

she cheated on you and gave you STDs and you want to give it a try and try to rebuild trust?

 

You say its because you have a kid together - are you even sure the kid is yours? I mean, given her cheating record, its not unlikely that its not yours (sorry if that sounds really harsh) - but its definitely worth looking into, if you haven't already.

 

Even if the kid is yours, leave her and get custody of your child. For them to grow up in such an environment is soooo wrong.

 

good luck

[Butchannon]

I have done DNA test and kid is mine. She doesn't know about that because she didn't allow me to do the test.

 

I am so mad at her... Why didn't she tell me she cheated on me before we got a child???