brown sugar Posted February 16, 2004 Share Posted February 16, 2004 I met the man of my dreams when i was out clubing..and this gorgeous guy wanted to learn to know me too...we actually exchanged phone numbers, and promised to keep in touch. I finally met him, and we went out for some bers. We had a great time, and truly belived that things couldn´t get any better, until i disclosed to him that i was seeing someone else, but i wasn´t sure about that relationship. Unfortunately this really turned my prince off, and he even got a headache and wanted to leave. He told me that i should be ashamed of myself. I didn´t think that it was such a big deal, since the relationship wasn´t good. Anyway, i tried to explain this to him by SMS, but he wrote back that he wasn´t so sure about the whole thing. I felt sick to my stomach, that he actually wanted to dumb me even before we actually got to it! Anyway, i wrote back to him that he should forget about me and leave me alone and that i wasn´t going to beg for his love. I ended the message with, "thanks for nothing". This was three days ago, and i´m feeling awful! I haven´t heard from him obviously, and i miss him so terribly much. I can´t eat or sleep, i just want us to patch things together, but i´d be a fool to contact him. If he cares about me then he should atleast communicate with me. Unfortunately i don´t think he will, and this breaks my heart! What can one do? Link to post Share on other sites
UCFKevin Posted February 16, 2004 Share Posted February 16, 2004 Kinda jumping the gun a bit, aren't you? You met him at a club and saw him once. You miss him that much just from that? Are you sure it's him you have feelings for or just the possibility of another guy and getting out of your self proclaimed not so good relationship that you're currently in? Link to post Share on other sites
Darkangelism Posted February 16, 2004 Share Posted February 16, 2004 You barely know him, and ususally when you are in a relationship and go out with somebody else, and you tell them, they won't want to be with you, cause you are wasting their time. Link to post Share on other sites
midori Posted February 16, 2004 Share Posted February 16, 2004 Sorry, did I miss something? You met this guy in a club, phoned him a couple of times, and went out on one date with him. When you revealed to him that you already were in a relationship (but a bad one), he didn't want to have anything more to do with you. And you told him to leave you alone. And now you're missing him terribly. Is that right? How quickly do you become emotionally attached to people? This seems rather extreme, given that you barely know this guy, and have spent very little time with him. Then of course there's the fact that you're in a relationship which you don't value, but haven't managed to extricate yourself from. What's up with that? To be honest I don't blame this guy for blowing you off, your behavior doesn't say much about your character. If you don't like the relationship you're in, end it. Regardless of whether or not you have other opportunities. Be honest with yourself and the people you interact with, including your unwanted boyfriend. Are you quite young -- teenager or early twenties? This seems needlessly melodramatic. People don't like to be messed around. You wouldn't like someone to treat you the way you've treated either your bf or the new guy, would you? Link to post Share on other sites
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